StreamDelicate 296 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 7 minutes ago, darkpaw said: You really aren’t reading and comprehending. and you really aren't explaining the points that you conveniently aren't addressing now that you've backed yourself into a corner. You can have your opinion and I'll have mine, but don't talk down to me when your only rebuttal is "You're not comprehending". Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreamDelicate 296 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 6 minutes ago, Rio said: So you haven't had sex with a girl and haven't kissed one since 6th grade?? guys lets just chill now lol Are hetero male virgins gay because they haven't slept with a woman?? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meruk Holland 2,294 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 1 hour ago, darkpaw said: What you fail to realize is that jus because you have an attraction to the same sex doesn’t make you Bisexual/Pansexual or whatever. I can be a straight man/woman and see someone of the same sex and feel an attraction to them but that alone doesn’t make me Bisexual. You may think my comment was biphobic but your idea of why it takes to make someone Bisexual is so frivolous and is the exact ideology that makes everyone think it’s so easy to just label them self as bi/pan. Why is necessary to gatekeep who can call themselves bi or pan and who can't? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLAG 7 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 4 minutes ago, StreamDelicate said: and you really aren't explaining the points that you conveniently aren't addressing now that you've backed yourself into a corner. You can have your opinion and I'll have mine, but don't talk down to me when your only rebuttal is "You're not comprehending". I apologize if you feel like I’m talking Dow to you. And I’m not sure how I’ve backed myself into a corner by not wanting to keep typing the same thing over further in layman terms so that someone else can get it. Like I said before, sexuality isn’t based on attraction alone. And I never said that bisexuality is based on the amount of times you’ve slept with each gender. If you have feelings for girls that one thing but if you can’t see yourself acting on those feelings then I wouldn’t call it bisexuality. I’m not saying you have to sleep with a woman to be bisexual but if it’s something that you wouldn’t/couldn’t do then you’re probably not. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLAG 7 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 4 minutes ago, Meruk Holland said: Why is necessary to gatekeep who can call themselves bi or pan and who can't? It’s necessary so that it doesn’t become a trend like celebrities try to make everything. Granted there are bisexual celebrities. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meruk Holland 2,294 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 2 minutes ago, darkpaw said: It’s necessary so that it doesn’t become a trend like celebrities try to make everything. Why is that an issue? The celebrities aren't being authentic? Or that they're trying to glamorize being bisexual? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreamDelicate 296 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 4 minutes ago, darkpaw said: I apologize if you feel like I’m talking Dow to you. And I’m not sure how I’ve backed myself into a corner by not wanting to keep typing the same thing over further in layman terms so that someone else can get it. Like I said before, sexuality isn’t based on attraction alone. And I never said that bisexuality is based on the amount of times you’ve slept with each gender. If you have feelings for girls that one thing but if you can’t see yourself acting on those feelings then I wouldn’t call it bisexuality. I’m not saying you have to sleep with a woman to be bisexual but if it’s something that you wouldn’t/couldn’t do then you’re probably not. No but you implied that because Ariana has a truck load of previous male partners that it's unfathomable that she might fantasize about lady bits. And it's impossible to know whether someone is "willing" to act on feelings or not because it's all in that person's head. I'm just gonna have to agree to disagree. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SLAG 7 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 3 minutes ago, StreamDelicate said: No but you implied that because Ariana has a truck load of previous male partners that it's unfathomable that she might fantasize about lady bits. And it's impossible to know whether someone is "willing" to act on feelings or not because it's all in that person's head. I'm just gonna have to agree to disagree. She does have a list of exes who are all male. And she may fantasize about being with women but unless she’s willing to act on it which like you said only she knows then she’s not bi. I for one don’t believe that she is but that’s just my opinion. And if she is then good for her for expirementing. And I guess we have no choice but to agree to disagree. Nice discussion tho. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twitter 14 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 4 hours ago, Meredith Grey said: I love her and literally stan her but at this point how many celebrities have done something or said something that questions their sexuality and then say “lol no comment” for attention/support from the gay community. It detracts from actual queer representation. This exactly. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sepsami 19,054 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 AS IF she's bisexual, she just knows it look good and it sells I mean I can't blame ha, promo is promo Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryhanna 3,507 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 44 minutes ago, darkpaw said: I apologize if you feel like I’m talking Dow to you. And I’m not sure how I’ve backed myself into a corner by not wanting to keep typing the same thing over further in layman terms so that someone else can get it. Like I said before, sexuality isn’t based on attraction alone. And I never said that bisexuality is based on the amount of times you’ve slept with each gender. If you have feelings for girls that one thing but if you can’t see yourself acting on those feelings then I wouldn’t call it bisexuality. I’m not saying you have to sleep with a woman to be bisexual but if it’s something that you wouldn’t/couldn’t do then you’re probably not. I feel like that's unnecessarily over-complicating it, though. I mean, call yourself whatever you feel like, but I don't think we need to put so many restrictions on what is and isn't bisexuality. Sexual attraction truly is a spectrum, and bisexuality is socially more or less an umbrella term for somebody who falls somewhere in the middle. It doesn't need a strict criteria. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oriane 21,133 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 And for those who need a word for it, it's called pansexuality. The only GGD member who can read / Credits to Celloo Deng for the profile pic! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
latina twilight 2,319 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 Whether is for promo purposes or not, none of us should care. "YOU USED TO BE SO KIND, I NEVER KNEW YOU HAD SUCH A DIRRTY MIND". Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikola 4,342 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 Flopianators are mad I see I've got an "F" and a "C" and I got a "K" too And the only thing that is missing is a bitch like "U" Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miracle 14,068 Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 Celebrities who decide to say "I don't identify with sexl orientation labels" do more than than you think to LGBTQ individuals. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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