Miracle 14,068 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 37 minutes ago, M Monstre said: Just as people who vilify Hart don't speak for every LGBTQ member out there too. As disgusting and inappropriate as his comments were, as a LGBTQ person of color, I'm not offended by them because those were comments made a decade ago, and they're not representative his character today. "aS A LgBqtQ PerSoN oF COlOUr" girl if you don't care about people who don't support you (and don't apologize until the scandal pops in), the shame's on you, not us.ย Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cody James 1,520 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 Just now, M Monstre said: I mean, that's true. Perhaps he could just be saying he isn't homophobic when he, in fact, might be, but from what I saw on Ellen, he seemed genuine. He knows what he said was wrong, and he's apologized in the past for it. There is literally nothing he can do besides apologize, and he's done that recently too. Trump is different. We can fact check the stuff he says pretty easily. With Hart, it's about his character. Agreed.ย Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
REALITY 77,144 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 2 minutes ago, derpmonster said: Yeah that's fair. I don't agree with digging up tweets either.ย But the fact that someone trolled wasn't really an excuse for how he didn't seem sorry at all. I don't wanna get into the whole thing but we can agree to disagree to a degree. And that's perfectly fine.ย I agree in the very beginning when this whole thing broke out, he didn't handle it the best. However, he's since apologized and that's really all anyone could ask for at this moment. We can't change the past, and I'm sure he realizes that now.ย ๐๐ฅ๐ข ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ '๐ฐ ๐ค๐ฌ๐ซ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค ๐ช๐ข ๐๐๐ ๐จ ๐ฃ๐ฏ๐ฌ๐ช ๐ก๐ข๐๐ฑ๐ฅ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracious Gaga 17,163 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 Britneyโs dad almostย โฅ Kindness Police. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
REALITY 77,144 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 1 minute ago, Miracle said: "aS A LgBqtQ PerSoN oF COlOUr" girl if you don't care about people who don't support you (and don't apologize until the scandal pops in), the shame's on you, not us.ย And if you can't see that the things he said were literally said a decade ago, I can't help you either. He acknowledged he screwed up, he's apologized numerous times, and that's all you can do. The article's author was singling out Ellen because she is a white, cisgender woman. I made it a point to say that I'm an LGBTQ person of color because the article criticizedย Ellen for speaking for the LGBTQ/ LGBTQ POC community when the reality is I agree with her. ๐๐ฅ๐ข ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ '๐ฐ ๐ค๐ฌ๐ซ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค ๐ช๐ข ๐๐๐ ๐จ ๐ฃ๐ฏ๐ฌ๐ช ๐ก๐ข๐๐ฑ๐ฅ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
rumours 45,521 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 22 minutes ago, SKANK said: ย This is my favorite post ever written on this site. Thank youย Maybe the good sis Pope Ellen will make me a Bishop for my serviceย Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Epione 10,896 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 She needs to be dragged and she should shut up. Good article! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
iCpro 14,846 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 6 minutes ago, M Monstre said: And if you can't see that the things he said were literally said a decade ago, I can't help you either. He acknowledged he screwed up, he's apologized numerous times, and that's all you can do. The article's author was singling out Ellen because she is a white, cisgender woman. I made it a point to say that I'm an LGBTQ person of color because the article criticizedย Ellen for speaking for the LGBTQ/ LGBTQ POC community when the reality is I agree with her. The thing is, he really didnโt. He refused to apologise for his past tweets, which is why the academy dropped him. It was only after he realised what a mess he was in that he actually issued an apology, which was clearly an empty one made to save face.ย None of this would have been an issue if he just apologised right out of the gate like the academy asked him to. Itโs the fact that he refused to apologise that annoyed most people. 08, 09, 11, 13, 16, 20 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
REALITY 77,144 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 1 minute ago, iCpro said: The thing is, he really didnโt. He refused to apologise for his past tweets, which is why the academy dropped him. It was only after he realised what a mess he was in that he actually issued an apology, which was clearly an empty one made to save face.ย None of this would have been an issue if he just apologised right out of the gate like the academy asked him to. Itโs the fact that he refused to apologise that annoyed most people. He's apologized numerous times in the past when the tweets were first brought up. The reason why he didn't apologize initially was because he's already apologized for them years ago. ๐๐ฅ๐ข ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ '๐ฐ ๐ค๐ฌ๐ซ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค ๐ช๐ข ๐๐๐ ๐จ ๐ฃ๐ฏ๐ฌ๐ช ๐ก๐ข๐๐ฑ๐ฅ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miracle 14,068 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 1 minute ago, M Monstre said: And if you can't see that the things he said were literally said a decade ago, I can't help you either. He acknowledged he screwed up, he's apologized numerous times, and that's all you can do. The article's author was singling out Ellen because she is a white, cisgender woman. I made it a point to say that I'm an LGBTQ person of color because the article criticizedย Ellen for speaking for the LGBTQ/ LGBTQ POC community when the reality is I agree with her. a) Not all things he said were a year ago b) He was old enough to know the repercussions of tweets. And despite 2011 being a different climate, common sense should have stopped him from posting it. But we all make unconscious decisions, I get that. The thing I don't get is why he didn't immediately repent.ย c) He claims the search of those tweets was an attack to him, therefore turning into the victim. He clearly isn't a victim. The thousands of viewers who don't want him are. d) No matter what you are, it doesn't mean you don't represent the entire community.ย Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas P 18,479 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 . Iโm a simple guy to please, if you like Melodrama, we chill. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas P 18,479 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 On 1/4/2019 at 4:35 PM, Rumours1977 said: Ellen clearly killed Lina Morgana and was made Pope by the ghostย of Tammy Faye Bakker.ย ย It all makes sense now.ย . Iโm a simple guy to please, if you like Melodrama, we chill. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
REALITY 77,144 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 2 minutes ago, Miracle said: a) Not all things he said were a year ago b) He was old enough to know the repercussions of tweets. And despite 2011 being a different climate, common sense should have stopped him from posting it. But we all make unconscious decisions, I get that. The thing I don't get is why he didn't immediately repent.ย c) He claims the search of those tweets was an attack to him, therefore turning into the victim. He clearly isn't a victim. The thousands of viewers who don't want him are. d) No matter what you are, it doesn't mean you don't represent the entire community.ย a) I think you mean decade, but nevertheless, it still doesn't change the fact that he said stuff years ago that he now regrets. This is different from the Roseanne Barr incident. She said inappropriate and disgusting stuff and then the next day she tried to claim it was the meds and she's a "different person" now. Hart said his stuff years ago and has had the time to grow and change his beliefs. b) While he was old enough to know what he was getting into, I do believe that the climate being different is a valid reason why he said those things. It doesn't change the fact that what he said was wrong, disgusting, and stupid, but you can't ignore the fact that society has changed a lot since then. Not only that, but he has the right to grow and change as an individual. If he doesn't believe those things now then why still attack him? Why not attack and go after people whoย currentlyย are saying homophobic, racist, sexist, transphobic, xenophobic things? c) To an extent, he is a victim. He is a victim of this social media "witch hunt" which disguises itself as people trying to "expose" people for their past. Now this certainly isn't as drastic as people who actually experience homophobia (I'm not trying to make that comparison), but people who are crucified for the stuff they've said years ago are, to an extent, victims. d) Well, that's true.ย ๐๐ฅ๐ข ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ '๐ฐ ๐ค๐ฌ๐ซ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ซ๐ค ๐ช๐ข ๐๐๐ ๐จ ๐ฃ๐ฏ๐ฌ๐ช ๐ก๐ข๐๐ฑ๐ฅ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lord Temptation 11,209 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 Confession: Iโve never laughed at Ellen. She does not make me laugh. In fact sheย actually scares me. I see nothing behind her eyesย Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ode 1,530 Posted January 4, 2019 Share Posted January 4, 2019 1 hour ago, August3 said: I have one problem with this. Why do they ALWAYS (fcking always) have to bring race and gender into everything? Is that just an American thing?ย No one is bringin race and gender into everything. Race and gender are just always there. *sigh* Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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