Judas Oyster 1,915 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 Ugh I don't mean this in a mean way (sorry Gaga) but if they have a baby let's say in 1 year... By the time that baby hits 20 years he will be 70 years old while Gaga 49 or something. Weird when she really wants to have children. Her parents won't be there by that time either. Idk. Sorry it's not my life she can do whatever she wants but it feels like she hasn't thought about it? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolitamuse 299 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 My issue is how quickly they moved with their relationship. I've been living with my partner for 4 years, and even still I'm learning something new about him every day and I think we're *just* now coming to a point of being ready for marriage. I know people get married much sooner than that, but then again, our divorce rates are also astronomical so idk. I just don't feel like they knew each other well enough to get engaged? Especially with her crazy schedule and always being away from home. Just seems fishy to me that he gets a tattoo of her a few months in and then proposes a few months after that. If my bf had gotten a tattoo of me 6 months into our relationship I'd RUN. SO FAST. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HorusRa2 5,005 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 8 minutes ago, lolitamuse said: My issue is how quickly they moved with their relationship. I've been living with my partner for 4 years, and even still I'm learning something new about him every day and I think we're *just* now coming to a point of being ready for marriage. I know people get married much sooner than that, but then again, our divorce rates are also astronomical so idk. I just don't feel like they knew each other well enough to get engaged? Especially with her crazy schedule and always being away from home. Just seems fishy to me that he gets a tattoo of her a few months in and then proposes a few months after that. If my bf had gotten a tattoo of me 6 months into our relationship I'd RUN. SO FAST. I know this is subjective and such, but I met my husband in March of 2014 and we were married by December 2014 (he was in the Navy and everything was rushed). We definitely weren’t ready to be married when we did it, but we got through it and we’re still together. 💛I think it just varies person by person/case by case. Addition: I think people give up too easily as soon as things get difficult. In re: your comment about divorce rate. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
warrentw 898 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 I know this wasn’t exactly new information but I just hope now that the media know about it they don’t just hound her in every interview and ask about her fiancé and I hope gaga keeps to the privacy she has been so far ie not walking red carpets with him ect. I don’t mean that in a nasty way I just think that certain things arnt our business and I like when she keeps them more low key. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolitamuse 299 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 Just now, HorusRa2 said: I know this is subjective and such, but I met my husband in March of 2014 and we were married by December 2014 (he was in the Navy and everything was rushed). We definitely weren’t ready to be married when we did it, but we got through it and we’re still together. 💛I think it just varies person by person/case by case. Please don't take this the wrong way, but idk how to say this without sounding super harsh--you guys have only been together for 4 years. I know plenty of unmarried couples that have been together for longer, myself included. Statistically, most marriages end within 7 years, so it doesn't necessarily mean anything that you're still together (again, don't take that the wrong way, idk how else to say that!) Not saying you'll get divorced, but just saying that a certain number of years doesn't guarantee you'll be together forever, you know? You never know what could happen. For example, my parents divorced after 16 years of marriage and a total of 20 years together. Unfortunately, the only way to know if a marriage really does "work" is to see it through all the way to old age. Which, obviously isn't practical for the purposes of trying to judge it from the outside looking in, the way we are with Gaga/Christian. I'm just saying, from my experience, you don't really know someone until you've lived with them for several years--like when you first married your husband, I'm sure you'll agree looking back now that you barely knew him compared to how you know him now. That kind of bond and knowledge takes time, it takes getting through hard moments with the other person, etc... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HorusRa2 5,005 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 10 minutes ago, lolitamuse said: Please don't take this the wrong way, but idk how to say this without sounding super harsh--you guys have only been together for 4 years. I know plenty of unmarried couples that have been together for longer, myself included. Statistically, most marriages end within 7 years, so it doesn't necessarily mean anything that you're still together (again, don't take that the wrong way, idk how else to say that!) Not saying you'll get divorced, but just saying that a certain number of years doesn't guarantee you'll be together forever, you know? You never know what could happen. For example, my parents divorced after 16 years of marriage and a total of 20 years together. Unfortunately, the only way to know if a marriage really does "work" is to see it through all the way to old age. Which, obviously isn't practical for the purposes of trying to judge it from the outside looking in, the way we are with Gaga/Christian. I'm just saying, from my experience, you don't really know someone until you've lived with them for several years--like when you first married your husband, I'm sure you'll agree looking back now that you barely knew him compared to how you know him now. That kind of bond and knowledge takes time, it takes getting through hard moments with the other person, etc... No worries. I’m not offended. You also don’t know what he and I have experienced together so there’s that too. I’m not saying you’re wrong but he and I went through deployments/long distance, infidelity, family member illness (my mom moved in with us because she has stage iv colon cancer), him losing his job, addiction (think alcohol/cigarettes) and other normal issues. So even though it’s been 4 years of marriage, there’s been a lot crammed in those 4 years. I’m not saying we’re never going to have problems but we’ve both stuck around for some really tough problems/situations and have become so much better for it. TBH, in some ways, it’s like we’re in the “honeymoon phase” for a second time after all of those things. Sorry for off-topic/rant but wanted to see this through. 😅 Also I think we just proved your point in reference to Gaga/Carino in terms of being on the outside looking in. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
wahkeenasitka 1,995 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 you guys have to stop w/ the bradley crap and let her have her own private life and her own love life. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAMROD 109,738 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 1 hour ago, lolitamuse said: My issue is how quickly they moved with their relationship. I've been living with my partner for 4 years, and even still I'm learning something new about him every day and I think we're *just* now coming to a point of being ready for marriage. Ugh, please. Every relationship are unique and in no way comparable to each other. Do not assume things as nobody know what their relationships are like but themselves. Besides, how long will you wait? You will always find something new about your man or woman even if you have lived together for over a decade. I did. It doesn't even matter. If it is good discovery it is new and fun things to explore together. If it is bad, both will have to work on how to approach that. That is what relationship is. You just don't give up easily. You will know if someone is right for you. It's the heart not the brain. There will be certain things that click that will make you goes, "this is it!" and all those logic just flew out the window. Judgmental personality and overly high standards is why many people are single these days. (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ✧*:･ﾟ dancin' until i'm dead (*´艸｀*) ♡♡♡ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
crushedlemonice 1,348 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 She also says it here Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zilla 13,405 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 6 hours ago, Sebs said: what i like about her and Carino is that it's her most private relationship since Dada. Both with Luc and Taylor (especially Taylor) she was very public about it. Pointing this out, I like how he's not in the spotlight.... I hope it remains that way because in a way to me it separates her personal life and fame more if she has a SO that's more private. Not my business but you know what I mean. He seems like a guy who's perfectly happy just hanging out with his girl without paparazzi all up in their stuff. I just hope everything goes well this time She's been flaunting that ring a lot too lol 𝙸'𝚖 𝚊 𝚓𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚓𝚎𝚕𝚕𝚢 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚎𝚜 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚏 𝚐𝚒𝚛𝚕. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manul 7,377 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 2 hours ago, lolitamuse said: Please don't take this the wrong way, but idk how to say this without sounding super harsh--you guys have only been together for 4 years. I know plenty of unmarried couples that have been together for longer, myself included. Statistically, most marriages end within 7 years, so it doesn't necessarily mean anything that you're still together (again, don't take that the wrong way, idk how else to say that!) Not saying you'll get divorced, but just saying that a certain number of years doesn't guarantee you'll be together forever, you know? You never know what could happen. For example, my parents divorced after 16 years of marriage and a total of 20 years together. Unfortunately, the only way to know if a marriage really does "work" is to see it through all the way to old age. Which, obviously isn't practical for the purposes of trying to judge it from the outside looking in, the way we are with Gaga/Christian. I'm just saying, from my experience, you don't really know someone until you've lived with them for several years--like when you first married your husband, I'm sure you'll agree looking back now that you barely knew him compared to how you know him now. That kind of bond and knowledge takes time, it takes getting through hard moments with the other person, etc... I think that if you've been together with someone for a few years and you still don't feel like you know enough about them to feel "secure" that speaks more about your relationship rather than this lil "general" theory up here about relationships. it wasn't laaaahv Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
pink sushi 4,351 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 3 hours ago, Judas Oyster said: Ugh I don't mean this in a mean way (sorry Gaga) but if they have a baby let's say in 1 year... By the time that baby hits 20 years he will be 70 years old while Gaga 49 or something. Weird when she really wants to have children. Her parents won't be there by that time either. Idk. Sorry it's not my life she can do whatever she wants but it feels like she hasn't thought about it? This is kind of a silly thing to be concerned about. While Christian is quite a bit older than Gaga, he's not so old that it would be concerning for him to have children. And 70 isn't even that old. Most of the people running the country are at least that age. People these days are living well into their 80s. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mars 2,379 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 Chris has already got kids too. Step-momGa Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LADY HAHA 417 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 21 hours ago, ACT2 said: i wonder who will perform at her wedding? lady gaga Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
wonderlanddynasty 715 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 Her wedding is gonna be epic. Imagine Mother Monster in a wedding dress Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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