Bayonetta 9,844 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 oh wow Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
chipz 1,207 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 I really wish her the best and I want her to be happy from the bottom of my heart! She really deserves the best and this man better treat her like the best possible way. I still can't trust him somehow, I know it's not my job, but I'm just sharing my thoughts. He looks aggressive somehow, I can't explain it. But Taylor looked like saint and we saw what happened. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolitamuse 299 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 11 hours ago, Mr Boopsmooch said: I think that if you've been together with someone for a few years and you still don't feel like you know enough about them to feel "secure" that speaks more about your relationship rather than this lil "general" theory up here about relationships. I never said anything about not feeling "secure"--to live with someone means you are secure with them already. I just think that you have to be with someone for a while to truly know you can spend the rest of your life with them. Have you been in a long term relationship and lived with a partner for years? If not, then it's easy to dismiss my "lil theory" because you don't know what I'm talking about. I'm happy to discourse with people who may disagree with me based on their own personal experiences of being in relationships, but that's just a fallacious comment that in no way invalidates my opinion. 12 hours ago, RAMROD said: Ugh, please. Every relationship are unique and in no way comparable to each other. Do not assume things as nobody know what their relationships are like but themselves. Besides, how long will you wait? You will always find something new about your man or woman even if you have lived together for over a decade. I did. It doesn't even matter. If it is good discovery it is new and fun things to explore together. If it is bad, both will have to work on how to approach that. That is what relationship is. You just don't give up easily. You will know if someone is right for you. It's the heart not the brain. There will be certain things that click that will make you goes, "this is it!" and all those logic just flew out the window. Judgmental personality and overly high standards is why many people are single these days. I mean, yeah, but also there are common threads in every relationship because at the end of the day humans are predictable. That's why psychology is a thing, because we can safely say that all humans experience certain things similarly. So, having a certain level of experience with a committed relationship gives you the experience to be able to make educated guesses about other committed relationships. Don't pretend that relationships are this weird, esoteric thing that are impossible to make opinions about just because you're not living inside them. We do this ALL THE TIME. How many of your friends have you looked at and been like "they'll break up in a few months" and you were right? How many times have you been like "he's not the right one for you" when your friend comes to you for relationship advice. You can say things because you have a certain well of experience to draw from, and the other half is common sense because you recognize there is an existing barometer for how healthy relationships should function. It's not outrageous to be able to make judgments on other's relationships based on your own personal experience, that's how literally every cognitive function in life works. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolitamuse 299 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 14 hours ago, HorusRa2 said: No worries. I’m not offended. You also don’t know what he and I have experienced together so there’s that too. I’m not saying you’re wrong but he and I went through deployments/long distance, infidelity, family member illness (my mom moved in with us because she has stage iv colon cancer), him losing his job, addiction (think alcohol/cigarettes) and other normal issues. So even though it’s been 4 years of marriage, there’s been a lot crammed in those 4 years. I’m not saying we’re never going to have problems but we’ve both stuck around for some really tough problems/situations and have become so much better for it. TBH, in some ways, it’s like we’re in the “honeymoon phase” for a second time after all of those things. Sorry for off-topic/rant but wanted to see this through. 😅 Also I think we just proved your point in reference to Gaga/Carino in terms of being on the outside looking in. Yeah, I know what you mean, and I'm very happy for you guys that you can make it through all that! I have similar experiences, my partner's father passed away a few months after we got together and he fell into a very deep clinical depression and addiction, so that was a rough start for our relationship and something that certainly almost broke us up a few times. We still have to battle with his mental illnesses as a barrier, since it makes intimacy very difficult for him, but I will agree with you that it makes your relationship very strong to be able to get through it together. You see your partner with new eyes after getting through a rough patch. Outside the context of this conversation, just wanted to say I certainly wish you and your husband the very best and I have no doubt you guys will have a long and happy marriage! Being able to hold someone up in a relationship through all those tough times is so important, glad you've found someone that you can have that kind of connection with. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schwerk 7,290 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 On 10/16/2018 at 3:55 PM, zHonMonster said: You could be right but legit she always looks so miserable with him like she’s stuck or something I think it's because most pictures we see of them are made by paparazzi. I wouldn't give them anything to feed off like even holding hands or showing any signs of affection tbh. Look at this picture Christian took of her, this is one happy woman. I like how they've managed to keep their relationship as private as they have, but that he is still there by her side all the time. He doens't hide to the extreme, but he also doesn't seem to crave the spotlights. I guess they got engaged a year ago when she started wearing the ring after dating for about a year. I guess it feels right and they've been through a lot together. She has become more distant and private since she started dating him and I do miss her candid interactions with us fans but Gaga seems way healthier and less tormented by her demons than ever before and if he is partly to thank for that, than I am forever gratefull to him for it. Hope they'll have a happy life together. According to Gaga I'm a ****ing rad bitch Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
wahkeenasitka 1,995 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 6 hours ago, chipz said: He looks aggressive somehow, I can't explain it. He looks aggressive? Are you joking? You clearly can't read people's energy / body language. Wow. Christian comes across as so kind, and supportive and loyal and humble and reserved. Nothing aggressive about him. He almost comes across as too sweet. I get nothing but love from him. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jinzo 9,639 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 I had no idea CariNo had been married twice.. A MESS Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley 9,698 Posted October 17, 2018 Share Posted October 17, 2018 1 hour ago, Decidueye said: I had no idea CariNo had been married twice.. A MESS He was married once before, not twice. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jinzo 9,639 Posted October 18, 2018 Share Posted October 18, 2018 22 minutes ago, modern ecstasy said: He was married once before, not twice. Well, I wish Gaga the best of luck Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashley 9,698 Posted October 18, 2018 Share Posted October 18, 2018 12 minutes ago, Decidueye said: Well, I wish Gaga the best of luck Ok? It’s very rude of you to act like they’ll have a bad marriage or something just because he’s been divorced. My parents were divorced and neither are bad people, they both went on to get remarried and are pretty happy now. That’s only one example of many out there. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
doppelganger 3,954 Posted October 19, 2018 Share Posted October 19, 2018 On 10/17/2018 at 11:37 PM, lolitamuse said: I never said anything about not feeling "secure"--to live with someone means you are secure with them already. I just think that you have to be with someone for a while to truly know you can spend the rest of your life with them. Have you been in a long term relationship and lived with a partner for years? If not, then it's easy to dismiss my "lil theory" because you don't know what I'm talking about. I'm happy to discourse with people who may disagree with me based on their own personal experiences of being in relationships, but that's just a fallacious comment that in no way invalidates my opinion. I mean, yeah, but also there are common threads in every relationship because at the end of the day humans are predictable. That's why psychology is a thing, because we can safely say that all humans experience certain things similarly. So, having a certain level of experience with a committed relationship gives you the experience to be able to make educated guesses about other committed relationships. Don't pretend that relationships are this weird, esoteric thing that are impossible to make opinions about just because you're not living inside them. We do this ALL THE TIME. How many of your friends have you looked at and been like "they'll break up in a few months" and you were right? How many times have you been like "he's not the right one for you" when your friend comes to you for relationship advice. You can say things because you have a certain well of experience to draw from, and the other half is common sense because you recognize there is an existing barometer for how healthy relationships should function. It's not outrageous to be able to make judgments on other's relationships based on your own personal experience, that's how literally every cognitive function in life works. While i agree that we all tend to do this, the problem is making judgment based on personal experience is that it is laced with personal biases and prejudices. Especially when the friend has no insight into the intimate nature of the relationship. The thing is , we don’t know Gaga. She isn’t our best friend and we have never met Christian to make that judgement. The only thing that i can say to some “monsters” (some of ya’ll are truly horrible) is that stop projecting what you want in your relationships into other people (ie Gaga). Gaga’s a mature women who has always been extremely open about what she wants in a relationship. She’s anything but gullible. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
wonderlanddynasty 715 Posted October 19, 2018 Share Posted October 19, 2018 Gaga is such a wonderful woman. She deserves someone who truly loves her and it doesn't matter what I think of Christian. Just hoping that he'll be able to give her all the best Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
raragaga 8,119 Posted October 21, 2018 Share Posted October 21, 2018 been we knew xoxo Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gagally 775 Posted October 21, 2018 Share Posted October 21, 2018 I have had trouble accepting CC (as if it matters what I think-<smile>) but today someone commented (correctly)his whole IG is just stanning for her. When you love someone that much, it can overcome alot. Maybe his whole seemingly-ill-fitted demeanor is just a manifestation of his disbelief that he is living his dream. He clearly treats her well, she clearly is satisfied with him, may G_d bless. I am still going to joke about BC though -too much fun not to! Watch As I Dive In Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MEM 3,114 Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 I’m choosing to look at the positives. For example, hopefully there’s pics of her with Bradley when he comes to the wedding Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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