Ethereal Mess 603 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 So yesterday, my friend sent me two videos of this guy who enjoys watching his wife indulge in sexual activities with other men, and so there was this guy that he particularly liked, and thus asked him to hook up with his wife. Now the video depicts the conversation between the three of them, and I found it hilarious because of the things being said and the way they were being said, and in the last 30 seconds of the video we see the guy taking the woman's clothes off and then it ends. The second video is a similar situation but instead of the wife, it's the guy's sister with the same man. I also found it really funny, and I sent them to some friends, all of whom found it funny as well. So then the stupidity in me gets activated, and I decided to send it to my brother in law too, hoping he'd find it funny. I was waiting for his response, and he was like "umm what's this? Why would u send me that? 😕" I could literally feel the disappointment and disgust radiate from my phone screen, and I immediately told him that I thought it was funny and I wanted you to laugh, so he said "whatever, you accidentally sent it to me", and the conversation ended. Fast forward to today, my sister came up to me and she told me that he was irritated by what I sent (she hadn't seen the videos tho), and that he no longer views me the same way he did before, and now he thinks I'm into incest or something and he told my sister that she needs to be careful with what she wears around me. Now obviously, my sister thinks that his reaction is very unreasonable, although she does agree that I shouldn't have sent such videos to him, and now both of us are basically trying to convince him that I only sent him the videos cuz I found the storylines to be funny, and I even sent him an apology, but he's still being obstinate and is not changing his mind. And now I'm literally like so anxious that this might ruin my relationship with him cuz I don't want that, and I don't want him to think I am a p*rn-addicted maniac. Why am I like this Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZiggyZiggs 30,058 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 um he sounds like a **** sorry not sorry Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
That J 12,166 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 He needs to lighten up. I would have found it gross but funny too...in a weird way. Obviously his comedy isnt as broad as ours. All you can do is apologize like you have done and let it go. He's overreacting. You did nothing wrong. The Idler Wheel Is Wiser Than The Driver Of The Screw Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gypsygaga1 3,623 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Oh well, that sounds pretty messy. Give him time, but dont beg him to forgive you, because you didn't do anything wrong Perfect Ilusion Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
That J 12,166 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 If you really wanna get him going, you and your sister should hold hands the next time you see him. Just for kicks. 😉 The Idler Wheel Is Wiser Than The Driver Of The Screw Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo Craig 55,649 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Gaga thoughts tho... Sounds like a douche, he's just over reacting. Give it time End Racism Now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JazzGa 14,620 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Omg that sucks Such a relatable problem and an easy mistake, that could easily happen to anyone. Tell a raunchy joke to the wrong acquaintance and BAM they permanently think you're racist/perverted/into killing babies. You gotta be careful with who you share your unclean sense of humor with. He is taking it way too seriously (Maybe because it secretly turned him on and he is ashamed LOL) but you didn't do anything wrong and you already gave a genuine apology. Your sister could probably help reassure him that it was just a joke but you've already done all you can tbh. My old cat is a tough man, but i cant deny the way he bites my hand and he stabs me, he grabs me by my heart <3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddie A Michael 362 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Those videos are not for families. I can see why he's bothered though. Just lay low and let time heals. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chr 4,217 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Why did your sister marry someone with no sense of humor Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moo 2,082 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 He sounds like a bit of a pr*ick to be honest. Its annoying but you're not the one in the wrong. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addison Rae 16,614 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 he needs to lighten up and realise that it wasn’t meant to be taken seriously. you’ve apologised, you’ve shown remorse and even though it’s a joke, he still won’t budge it isn’t your problem anymore. people use situations like that just to show their hidden hatred for other people so just live your life and as long as your sister still loves you her boyfriend can rot xx sitting on his lap sipping diet pepsi Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeJudas 6,490 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 48 minutes ago, Ethereal Mess said: So yesterday, my friend sent me two videos of this guy who enjoys watching his wife indulge in sexual activities with other men, and so there was this guy that he particularly liked, and thus asked him to hook up with his wife. Now the video depicts the conversation between the three of them, and I found it hilarious because of the things being said and the way they were being said, and in the last 30 seconds of the video we see the guy taking the woman's clothes off and then it ends. The second video is a similar situation but instead of the wife, it's the guy's sister with the same man. I also found it really funny, and I sent them to some friends, all of whom found it funny as well. So then the stupidity in me gets activated, and I decided to send it to my brother in law too, hoping he'd find it funny. I was waiting for his response, and he was like "umm what's this? Why would u send me that? 😕" I could literally feel the disappointment and disgust radiate from my phone screen, and I immediately told him that I thought it was funny and I wanted you to laugh, so he said "whatever, you accidentally sent it to me", and the conversation ended. Fast forward to today, my sister came up to me and she told me that he was irritated by what I sent (she hadn't seen the videos tho), and that he no longer views me the same way he did before, and now he thinks I'm into incest or something and he told my sister that she needs to be careful with what she wears around me. Now obviously, my sister thinks that his reaction is very unreasonable, although she does agree that I shouldn't have sent such videos to him, and now both of us are basically trying to convince him that I only sent him the videos cuz I found the storylines to be funny, and I even sent him an apology, but he's still being obstinate and is not changing his mind. And now I'm literally like so anxious that this might ruin my relationship with him cuz I don't want that, and I don't want him to think I am a p*rn-addicted maniac. Why am I like this He sounds like he's protecting some inner feelings of himself....or he is just a humorless soul Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmxoxo 943 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 ididsomethingbad.mp3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
666 others 1,856 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 11 hours ago, Ethereal Mess said: now he thinks I'm into incest or something and he told my sister that she needs to be careful with what she wears around me. Seriously??? I feel sorry for you and your sister. Your brother-in-law is OVERREACTING in all-caps. He should lighten up a bit. But overall the whole situation is hilarious :holyshit: Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
2007 5,291 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Sound likes he’s an uptight but in a decorous, innocent yet in a mature way. Does he know you’ve sent the same video to a bunch of people? He might realize it’s not personal and you’ve done it for the sake of ‘laughs’. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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