Babel 41,637 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 the last essays... certain users are shaking Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solitaiire 2,564 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 On 14/11/2017 at 9:52 PM, Sableye said: I think that's so strange. Have you met a feminine gay man? They are the most FUN human being I've ever met. Wow i love generalizations and stereotypes Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
En_Sabah_Nur 9,366 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 This is an issue I have been fighting all my adult life about & the MAIN reason I have never had a boyfriend before & also the MAIN reason I have never Truly felt apart of the LGBT community/experience! Gay people have treated me like complete and utter **** for being Fem, ever since I came out. I mean things are better now actually, unlike when I come out originally. Things were much worse back then regarding this particular issue. It wasn’t until I hit my 30’s a few years back, that I could even muster the courage to actually say that I am Fem! For years this was(and still is to some extent) the ULTIMATE *gay* sin within the gay community. Something that could instantly get you blocked, ignored, or cursed out if you dared to utter/proclaim it to somebody... I mean in the end tho, there is nothing wrong with having “preferences”, but dehumanizing people because they possess a trait that you personally just happen to find unattractive.. Is abhorrent in and of itself quite honestly... 😢😢😢 Egypt. W Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FentyGa 14,340 Posted November 16, 2017 Share Posted November 16, 2017 Sis, we been knew it's sad, but we been knew Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Margaux 137 Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 I think that it's ok to not be attracted to someone feminine or masculine. But I also think that it's annoying when a guy I'm dating is like too masculine and so afraid of femininity that he discriminates against it and wants to be as far away from it as possible that he engages in toxic behavior. That's all. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo Craig 55,649 Posted November 21, 2017 Share Posted November 21, 2017 On 10/11/2017 at 4:02 AM, M Monstre said: I don't think that not being attracted the feminine guys is discriminatory, however, the fact that 41% of the people surveyed said that feminine guys give the community a bad name is disgusting. So what if a guy is a bit more feminine than most? You may not be attracted to them, but at the same time, don't bad-mouth them. This, I agree. Thats a matter of taste. I personally dont find femme gays attractive because they arent my type. I'm not being discriminatory against femme gays by saying that. Being femme doesnt make you less of a man and guys should respect that. They certainly dont give gays a bad name. They are just being who they are. Love is love no matter what. Respect how others are and everyone will be fine End Racism Now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sizzily 14,571 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 This is still going. The eternally triggered, truly. Inside my head I have the best time Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Thomas 124 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Gaga Grindr daily Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blake 7,385 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Oh my God, here we go again. Actually tragic. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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