Daenerys 6,274 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 4 minutes ago, RAMROD said: Why afraid? But opinion always come with feedback, and responsibility. And people always takes things differently with someone else’s opinion. If you didn’t see this thing coming, that is quite problematic tbh But there’s a difference between getting feedback and just being plain insulted. I mean, I SHOULD have seen this coming but then again I didn’t expect things to get so out of context. Like, I come here for the kiii meltdowns and rumors but after some of these responses I’m like, uh.... should I go kill myself now like how some edits suggested? Daenerys of the House Targaryen, the First of Her Name, The Unburnt, Queen of the Andals, the Rhoynar and the First Men, Queen of Meereen Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAMROD 117,011 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 1 minute ago, GodofLove said: But there’s a difference between getting feedback and just being plain insulted. I mean, I SHOULD have seen this coming but then again I didn’t expect things to get so out of context. Like, I come here for the kiii meltdowns and rumors but after some of these responses I’m like, uh.... should I go kill myself now like how some edits suggested? Don’t falter tbh. Heated discussions always happen. Some people may take it way too personally hence the insults. (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ✧*:･ﾟ ᶠʳᵒⁿᵗ ᵗᵒʷᵃʳᵈ ᵉⁿᵉᵐʸ (*´艸｀*) ♡♡♡ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoebitch11 3,924 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 Preferences are very diverse, nuanced and contextual tbh. Not to mention ever-changing. Can't hold it against someone if they don't like a certain thing. But of course ppl shouldn't go around demeaning those who are not their preference. And finally. All preferences, no matter what, are dictating by surroundings. But we get to choose, eventually, once we're aware, what we respond to tbh. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoebitch11 3,924 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 Regardless of that yall hunties still thirsin 4 the same dig BIX so shut up Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dayum 240 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 I think masculinity is what gay men want. It is telling to their heterosexual counterparts that: "Hey, we're just like you, the only difference between you and me, is that I don't like chicks. I like d1cks." That's their argument, They are striving for acceptance by the norm by limiting the difference between what a gay man is and what a straight man to the preference of genitalia. That is why, to them the fems are putting an additional hurdle. Not only are their sexual orientation different, but they also act differently to how society thinks a man should act. This is their reality. I personally think that fem can be themselves for all intents and purposes. Nothing can change who they really are. It is just unfortunate that it runs counter to the ideal man. I think I can only put this down as unfortunate and nothing else. The perception of weakness is of course a corollary of that. It is just a simplified opposite of what an ideal man is. Is it wrong to say a man is less a man and more a woman? I think the description is not static of course. He may be more of a man in some respect, but more of a woman in different aspect of his life. As for the advertising, it is just marketing targeting those who seek validation from society. And sometimes, it does smell like what a man would wear. Just saying. Masculinity is not fragile. People are. Just giving my two cents. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SevenWonder 4,743 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 I love femme men. They make life so much more interesting. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CautiousLurker 19,709 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 I don't see a problem with being turned off by feminine guys - you don't decide whom you're attracted to - I really don't understand why so many people struggle to understand that... Not being sexually attracted to someone =/= discrimination As for people thinking feminine gay guys give the whole community a bad rep, while I don't agree, I can see why some people would think that way... Almost every time a gay man is portrayed in film or tv, they have to be as catty and promiscuous as possible... It's almost never a regular guy and I think that's a problem... Lets be honest, there's still a large portion of people who think gay men basically want to be women and they equate attraction to men to that... I've lost count of how many times I told people I'm gay and their reaction was It's a joke! When you give me that look, it's a joke! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordEnigma 11,313 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 16 hours ago, Booker DeWitt said: I don't see how saying sh*t like "Masculinity so fragile" helps but ok. Because masculinity is seen as strength but it can be torn down so easily. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordEnigma 11,313 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 4 minutes ago, CautiousLurker said: I don't see a problem with being turned off by feminine guys - you don't decide whom you're attracted to - I really don't understand why so many people struggle to understand that... Not being sexually attracted to someone =/= discrimination That’s not what it’s about Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CautiousLurker 19,709 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 3 minutes ago, Alexander Levi said: That’s not what it’s about The first part of it is It's a joke! When you give me that look, it's a joke! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordEnigma 11,313 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 Just now, CautiousLurker said: The first part of it is Ok but you have to look at it as a whole and not just pick certain parts of it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CautiousLurker 19,709 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 Just now, Alexander Levi said: Ok but you have to look at it as a whole and not just pick certain parts of it. No, I'm pretty sure I won't break any laws of physics if I comment only on the part of the post I don't agree with But fine, let me edit my post... It's a joke! When you give me that look, it's a joke! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CautiousLurker 19,709 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 10 minutes ago, Alexander Levi said: That’s not what it’s about Happy It's a joke! When you give me that look, it's a joke! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad Chanel 239 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 Buy GLORY on iTunes Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haroon 49,685 Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 1 hour ago, GodofLove said: Alls I know is that now I’m terrified to express myself on here unless it’s saying something you guys want to hear. Is that how it’s supposed to be on this forum? @Admin? @Haroon? Let me know! If so perma ban me plz! what Not at all, differing opinions are fine but that doesn't mean that people with different opinions can't be disagreed with Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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