Gaga's intense relationship with her fans

[PeterPan 0]

2 hours ago, Doot said:

 

In regards to the unhealthy comment, I stated it another thread and I will state it again. Lady Gaga is a musician. She is not a therapist. She is not a counselor. She is not a Psychiatrist. She is not a Psychologist. Having people constantly come up to you saying how they wanted to kill themselves, how they were beaten, bullied, etc, has got to be extremely taxing on her mentally. That is entirely too much pressure, and the backlash she has received this tour cycle simply because of less interaction, proves my point. She gave the fanbase all she had, and now they have no respect when she wants to be a normal human being and have some privacy and time to herself. That is extremely sad. 

 

Yes, that is often an issue on here as well. I bought three tour tickets, and I am allowed to have an opinion on what I am paying for. If she can't handle that, she shouldn't be online reading reviews. Not everyone is going to be positive. Everyone has different tastes. I preferred her weird gothic imagery and sound she had back in TFM era, and I strongly dislike country-esque music. But here I am. With three tour tickets, because I am supporting an artist. Doesn't mean I have to like everything she does. 

True she is not anyones therapist and people leaning on her to save their lives need to get some real help to from an actual therapist. Tbh I didnt even know how interactive she was in past tours with fans.  I just bought tickets to her shows, sat in the seat, hanged with my friend, sang along and had a good time and when it was over usually went home.  Lol.  I didnt try to go find her or stalk her hotel or anything. Not that I would even know where she was in the first place.  I do know after her tour her she usually goes to this country western gay bar that she used to visit back before she was big.  She usually does a mini show or just makes appearances.  I tried to go one time but it was almost impossible to find parking anywhere and was so packed that even if i got inside the bar lol id never get to be anywhere near her.  I support her too and I actually like country  but i dont have tickets yet for any shows lol.  This bitch is broke and im not willing to buy nose bleeds.

[PeterPan 0]

This question may sound dumb but when did she bring people on stage?  I went to two Monster Ball shows here and 1 ArtRave and I dont remember her bringing people onstage?

[PeterPan 0]

Actually what im upset about is ive seen her 3 times and ive yet to actually have a decent view.  Its like i pay to watch the screens 

[Doot 2]

15 minutes ago, PeterPan said:

True she is not anyones therapist and people leaning on her to save their lives need to get some real help to from an actual therapist. Tbh I didnt even know how interactive she was in past tours with fans.  I just bought tickets to her shows, sat in the seat, hanged with my friend, sang along and had a good time and when it was over usually went home.  Lol.  I didnt try to go find her or stalk her hotel or anything. Not that I would even know where she was in the first place.  I do know after her tour her she usually goes to this country western gay bar that she used to visit back before she was big.  She usually does a mini show or just makes appearances.  I tried to go one time but it was almost impossible to find parking anywhere and was so packed that even if i got inside the bar lol id never get to be anywhere near her.  I support her too and I actually like country  but i dont have tickets yet for any shows lol.  This bitch is broke and im not willing to buy nose bleeds.

Oh I totally try and find her after shows. It is fun, and she totally expects it. I just dont snap photos. 

11 minutes ago, PeterPan said:

This question may sound dumb but when did she bring people on stage?  I went to two Monster Ball shows here and 1 ArtRave and I dont remember her bringing people onstage?

I don't think she started till BTWB, and thats when it was a nightly occurrence. 

(and now people think she simply has to all the time or else she hates her fans )

She would pull someone up for Born This Way during the artRAVE (sometimes), but there were segments, like during the green hair segment, where everyone in the audience knew to throw **** on stage. She would typically randomly grab something, read the heartbreaking letter that was attached, then sometimes sing a random song, and invite the fans backstage.

 

This was just the norm.

 

 

Joanne World Tour, she rarely has done this, maybe twice, and didn't bring fans on stage or backstage.

[Lextyr97 19,958]

5 hours ago, Star Burst said:

Beats having a following comprised of individuals who brown nose her daily. If one can't handle both praise and critique then this may be the wrong profession to remain in. No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes but one should learn from past predicaments and improve accordingly. People who buy her records and concert tickets should have the right to express their opinions on social media without being deemed as spreading negativity or disloyal. It's childish.Let'sw up a little folks.

 

I agree to an extent. It's one thing to say you're upset or disappointed that Gaga isn't performing and you lost your money and whatnot. That's totally fine. BUT it's totally and ENTIRELY another thing to tell Gaga to kill herself for cancelling a show, or accusing her of lying (trying to damage her image by saying her illness is one big excuse) to get out of touring. That's the issue here. And it's kind of hard to avoid when the news became so immense that it was literally reported on Brazilian news channels, and the postponement made headlines. These things are hard to dodge sometimes.

[PeterPan 0]

9 minutes ago, Doot said:

Oh I totally try and find her after shows. It is fun, and she totally expects it. I just dont snap photos. 

I don't think she started till BTWB, and thats when it was a nightly occurrence. 

(and now people think she simply has to all the time or else she hates her fans )

She would pull someone up for Born This Way during the artRAVE (sometimes), but there were segments, like during the green hair segment, where everyone in the audience knew to throw **** on stage. She would typically randomly grab something, read the heartbreaking letter that was attached, then sometimes sing a random song, and invite the fans backstage.

 

This was just the norm.

 

 

Joanne World Tour, she rarely has done this, maybe twice, and didn't bring fans on stage or backstage.

i skipped BTWB

edit:  how do u find her or know where she will be?

[PeterPan 0]

Wanna see the best quality video ever  

 

[Doot 2]

9 minutes ago, PeterPan said:

i skipped BTWB

edit:  how do u find her or know where she will be?

hardwork, dedication and research

[PeterPan 0]

Just now, Doot said:

hardwork, dedication and research

well lol im not that dedicated

i forgot: i was also busy after the ArtRave since my car was towed!!!

$175 to get it back I was so pissed

[Doot 2]

Just now, PeterPan said:

well lol im not that dedicated

Then your chances of meeting her are very small

[PeterPan 0]

17 minutes ago, Doot said:

Then your chances of meeting her are very small

im ok with that

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1 hour ago, Letmelivemylife said:

Exactly. When some people see her, they just see "hmm that's lady gaga. If I get a picture with her, I can get X amount of likes on Instagram, Twitter, etc". That's just so wrong in my opinion. She has so much more to offer than just her image. 

I still want her body tho

 

[PeterPan 0]

7 minutes ago, PeterPan said:

im ok with that

If i ever ran into her crew members at JWT i wouldnt even know cause I dpnt know who they r 

[Slayer 9,227]

4 hours ago, Star Burst said:

I know you're new here, but we generally quote people when adding to the discussion. To give context. So you don't waste people's time. 

[Slayer 9,227]

2 hours ago, TylerBR97 said:

I agree to an extent. It's one thing to say you're upset or disappointed that Gaga isn't performing and you lost your money and whatnot. That's totally fine. BUT it's totally and ENTIRELY another thing to tell Gaga to kill herself for cancelling a show, or accusing her of lying (trying to damage her image by saying her illness is one big excuse) to get out of touring. That's the issue here. And it's kind of hard to avoid when the news became so immense that it was literally reported on Brazilian news channels, and the postponement made headlines. These things are hard to dodge sometimes.

Fans can express disappointment, sure, but if they start turning on Gaga for cancelling/postponing shows, they were never fans to begin with. It's not a matter of freedom of speech or having a right to express your views on the Internet. If someone is in severe pain and you accuse her of lying about it, you're not a disappointed fan, you're just a asshat who bought tickets to her show.