Lanius 1,055 Posted July 11, 2017 Author Share Posted July 11, 2017 2 minutes ago, Ferrer Zorola said: NO. It's fuqqing NOT. So you want him to be oh you're trans but I can't say no because that would make me a dyck, let's ignore the fact that I your artificial genitalia turns me off and still have a date and maybe have sex later? because saying no would make me a transphobic prick There's little differences between a Cis man penis and Trans man penis. If he wouldn't had told you he was trans you wouldn't notice. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supersonic 49,376 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 1 minute ago, lodylody said: There's a polite way to do everything. But there's a difference between common decency (which would be saying "I'm sorry but I'm not attracted to transgender people, I wish you the best though") and transphobia ("ew I hate transgenders ew stop messaging me you'll go to hell for your sins"). "GET THE F*CK OUT OF MY HOUSE YOU F*GGOT" vs. "I'm sorry, we just can't condone your sexual practices, we have to let you go from your job, it unfortunately doesn't not coincide with our company's ideas of morality and ethics." Both are homophobic statements, one fits in the category "Homophobic + acting like a rude asshole" and one "homophobic + cordial response". There is like literally no need to tell somebody "I'm not dating you because of that" unless the person is ASKING, going out of your way to do this is not only extra, but also shows how shallow somebody is as a person, if they are willing to throw a potential healthy relationship out of the window just because of things that shouldn't really matter in the first place. Not all transphobic statements and beliefs are rooted in wanting to like kill or physically violate transgender people, just like not all racist statements call for the genocide of black people, just like not all homophobic statements call for violence against gay people. If you don't wanna date trans people, fine, do it, trans people will THANK you. But if you go on the internet to scream into the void about how you don't wanna date trans people, chances are the people are gonna have the impression that you're an unbearable edgelord who has an opinion just for the sake of having an opinion and ruffles feathers of people who were just trying to mind their own business. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lodylody 1,790 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Just now, Lanius said: Fat people aren't a marginalized oppressed minority so no OH MY LORD. OH MY GOODNESS. I CANNOT. So if people are oppressed we should forego our sexual preferences and date them, but if they aren't an oppressed minority we can 'discriminate' against them? Your argument has just lost all credibility. One rule for one group and a different rule for another. Tragic. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlepotter 76,612 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 2 minutes ago, Lanius said: You weren't born attracted to cis men. Society shapes us and tells us what we SHOULD be attracted to. Finally found something I could quote without people reporting me for it. Everyone on this site can agree that this is false. Society told us we SHOULD be attracted to women, yet most of us are attracted to men chaeri pls Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
BibleThisWay 4,370 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 1 minute ago, Lanius said: Your post are starting to come off transphobic For telling the truth? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lodylody 1,790 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Just now, Supersonic said: "GET THE F*CK OUT OF MY HOUSE YOU F*GGOT" vs. "I'm sorry, we just can't condone your sexual practices, we have to let you go from your job, it unfortunately doesn't not coincide with our company's ideas of morality and ethics." Both are homophobic statements, one fits in the category "Homophobic + acting like a rude asshole" and one "homophobic + cordial response". There is like literally no need to tell somebody "I'm not dating you because of that" unless the person is ASKING, going out of your way to do this is not only extra, but also shows how shallow somebody is as a person, if they are willing to throw a potential healthy relationship out of the window just because of things that shouldn't really matter in the first place. Not all transphobic statements and beliefs are rooted in wanting to like kill or physically violate transgender people, just like not all racist statements call for the genocide of black people, just like not all homophobic statements call for violence against gay people. If you don't wanna date trans people, fine, do it, trans people will THANK you. But if you go on the internet to scream into the void about how you don't wanna date trans people, chances are the people are gonna have the impression that you're an unbearable edgelord who has an opinion just for the sake of having an opinion and ruffles feathers of people who were just trying to mind their own business. 1st paragraph - I'm saying no to dating a transgender person because I'm not attracted to them, not because I disagree with their morality. 3rd paragraph - I think sexual attraction is quite important in a relationship. 4th paragraph - Yes... 5th paragraph - No-ne's minding their own business on a public forum. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lodylody 1,790 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 2 minutes ago, Lanius said: There's little differences between a Cis man penis and Trans man penis. If he wouldn't had told you he was trans you wouldn't notice. What, like when he has to pump it up to make it hard? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cuchulainn 3,040 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 5 minutes ago, Lanius said: His penis is no different than a cis mans penis What's the name of the model? I wanna do some research Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
XXXXX 4,775 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 This is already so messy Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lanius 1,055 Posted July 11, 2017 Author Share Posted July 11, 2017 no one is forcing anyone to date her, but rejecting her based on her transgendered status is transphobic. If you reject someone because they're black, that's racist. There's no difference and there's really no arguing around it. You aren't born with your preferences, preferences are shaped by our society. Not to mention that a preference is discrimination, by definition. One may prefer apples but still not be opposed to oranges. That's preference. What ya'll are doing is saying I ONLY want Apples, I would NEVER eat an Orange. That's discrimination @BibleThisWay @lodylody Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ferrer Zorola 3,966 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 24 minutes ago, Lanius said: There's little differences between a Cis man penis and Trans man penis. If he wouldn't had told you he was trans you wouldn't notice. listen: even if theres not a single difference its not hatred if you reject them compare it to having natural eggs for breakfast at home or artificial eggs at McDonalds. They taste the same but just knowing the fact they are indeed different can make you back off. It's psychological. LIFE IS GOOD Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
XXXXX 4,775 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Just now, Creativek said: What's the name of the model? I wanna do some research His name is Laith Ashley. It took 3 seconds to find out. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ferrer Zorola 3,966 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Lord show the op the way omg the world and people weren't made to make you happy or go on with your victimization fetish LIFE IS GOOD Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cuchulainn 3,040 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 1 minute ago, BloodyGlory said: His name is Laith Ashley. It took 3 seconds to find out. Thank you. I'm on mobile Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabbit Heart 619 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Model for what? No hate but this world is crazier by day Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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