babs 5,093 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 All of the guys were HUGE douches, except for the first one. Maybe he didn't know how to express himself, but she definitely got the idea of it and tbh, coming out and living as trans when you are one is admirable, but expecting everyone to be open to dating you is naive. I am SO gay and I'm not saying I would never date a trans man, cause that's ignorant too, but I like dicks. I find it MEGA hard to get turned on by a vagina, because it's not what I like. The thought of it makes me wanna go NO. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
mic 1,415 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Oh my gosh straight guys prefer bio girls over me they must be transphobic! I love LGBT society and all but the sense of entitlement among some individuals is jut so annoying. The last guy was indeed transphobic though Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Palutena 3,147 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 @dopega The Transphobes of GGD are at it again, I see. When will @blackstar? 🌚 Adoremus in caelum, Palutena. Dea luminis. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buddy 5,686 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 The fact that there are trans people in here saying it's not transphobic and yet ya'll want to speak for them. They way the last two went about it was indeed transphobic, but rejecting a person because they're trans is not. Trans people are not biologically sex they present themselves as. That, in itself, is enough for a person to warrant a deal-breaker. Some people are just no comfortable with a recreation of a vagina. I am not comfortable with the recreation of a penis. Doesn't mean I'm transphobic, it just is what it is. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackstar 11,512 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 6 hours ago, Lady Palutena said: @dopega The Transphobes of GGD are at it again, I see. When will @blackstar? 🌚 Violet stop being violent. 🌚 not very born this way of ü 🌚 Dilated, falling free in a modern ecstasy Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
dopega 3,789 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 7 hours ago, Lady Palutena said: @dopega The Transphobes of GGD are at it again, I see. When will @blackstar? 🌚 End them 🌚 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GypsyVida 5,960 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 Sorry. Say I was a heterosexual male. I saw her on a dating site. We started talking and then she told me she was trans. She says she has male genitalia. Sorry but we're over because that's not what I'm attracted to. It has nothing to do with being transphobic. It has everything to do with being sexually attracted to pu**ys and not d*cks. Spoiler And let's say it was a trans man. If he has female genitalia then no, I wouldn'y date him because that's not what I'm sexually attracted to. Spoiler And don't say that you don't have to be sexually attracted to them to be in a serious relationship with them. Of course you do. That's a major part of a relationship. Idiots. currently streaming Zombieboy Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
giskardsb 12,565 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 many straight men are looking to start families. Is it really so hard to wonder why there might be an innate biological reason why they might want to only date a biological woman? if they would refuse to associate completely with a trans person because they are trans, then you can call them transphobic. If they are perfectly willing to get to know a trans person and be friends with them, but are looking for a biologic female for marriage and family, you can't. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeterPan 0 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 On 7/11/2017 at 10:23 AM, Lanius said: One of the guys said that they weren't interested in her because he was an Heterosexual MAN. Basically implying that she's not a woman True but he wasn't rude about it or call her a freak. He said please take no offense, Be Well at least he was courteous about it compared to the others she didn't need to blast him for turning her down in a courteous manner. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeterPan 0 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 On 7/11/2017 at 10:23 AM, JamesFox said: This. I don't agree with her being abused, but if a male rejects her it doesn't mean he's transphobic. I couldn't get with a transman that's just being honest. I totally agree I honestly truly wouldnt date a transman, just a preference. Why do people find that trannsphobic? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FATCAT 60,888 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 On 7/11/2017 at 11:23 AM, Lanius said: Basically implying that she's not a woman What would the vanilla term be for someone that only wants to sleep with non-transitional females or Males? Because it's super confusing and/or misleading, especially if you haven't gotten the surgery. This kitten over here (meow) Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FATCAT 60,888 Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 On 7/11/2017 at 11:46 PM, Chic said: I haven't been single in years thankfully. I'd hate to be in the dating scene when there's people like this around. I wouldn't have liked it, but that would have been my problem, not theirs, lol. Those people are allowed to have their preferences. When I was single it sucked though. It's difficult to come to terms with it when you're on the receiving end of rejection as a trans person because it's not about your looks or your character or compatability. Everything could be fine in a relationship except for the details of one's birth. And because it's a sensitive topic to some people, it can really strike a nerve. That's why I'm so lucky to have my man, why it means so much more than a typical relationship imo. Because we overcame prior hangups and found a way to embrace the perceived imperfections. I'd hate so much to be without him. I know how it feels. I could only ever have been with a cis man. Which is why it used to sting so much. Love you, Chic. This kitten over here (meow) Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JbGaga 2,261 Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 I don't think not wanting to date someone who is trans is transphobic.... But some of the hatefull things said by these people are. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CakeLikeLG 6,275 Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 20 hours ago, giskardsb said: many straight men are looking to start families. Is it really so hard to wonder why there might be an innate biological reason why they might want to only date a biological woman? if they would refuse to associate completely with a trans person because they are trans, then you can call them transphobic. If they are perfectly willing to get to know a trans person and be friends with them, but are looking for a biologic female for marriage and family, you can't. and many straight men are looking only for hookups. If you think all of those assholes wanted to start a family you are stupid lol live each day like Gaga might drop an album Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Illuminati 15,965 Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 The first one isn't really transphobic, yeah he chose the wrong words but he said something a lot of the gays here said about trans men when they were asked if they would date them. He's not into that, whether it's a genital or a body type, that's ok. The other ones were unnecessarily rude though and that's an issue. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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