Transgender model EXPOSES Transphobic men on dating sites

[Noah X 5,250]

1 minute ago, yes said:

You literally just pulled a "I have a black friend, I'm not racist..."

It sucks that you people think you can tell other minority groups how they should feel. People messaged this woman saying horrible things and y'all saying things like "oh that's just a preference, he's not transphobic." NO! The sh*t they're saying is offensive. Like, accept that and move on.

That's not a comparable statement in any way  

Let's say I own a cat I chose to adopt, does that mean I can still possibly be ~*internally subsconsciously ingrained*~ as a cat-xist somewhere because of SOCIETY?!?! I swear tumblr is getting worse every minute.  

And yes the things those men said to this woman was totally unacceptable and offensive, I'm not defending them. This is another side conversation about preference. 

[yes 561]

3 minutes ago, Kenzo said:

That's not a comparable statement in any way  

Let's say I own a cat I chose to adopt, does that mean I can still possibly be ~*internally subsconsciously ingrained*~ as a cat-xist somewhere because of SOCIETY?!?! I swear tumblr is getting worse every minute.  

And yes the things those men said to this woman was totally unacceptable and offensive, I'm not defending them. This is another side conversation about preference. 

Thank you.

I didn't get the thing about the cat.

[Noah X 5,250]

Just now, yes said:

 

I didn't get the thing about the cat.

Yes, same way I don't get your comparison. It's absurdity 

[yes 561]

2 minutes ago, Kenzo said:

Yes, same way I don't get your comparison. It's absurdity 

Y'all really just gonna keep blaming everything on SJW'S and Tumblr instead of trying to to listen to people and understand them... go off, I guess.

[CakeLikeLG 6,275]

most men no matter gay, straight or bi ()will never understand that sex is not only about genitals. She is a beautiful curvy woman. If a trans guy with great masculine body wanted me I would go for it

[Pearly 1,008]

47 minutes ago, yes said:

The fact that some of you cis people are on here talking about what's transphobic and what's not...

If trans people find those comments offensive, then the least you could do is LISTEN AND RESPECT THEM.

 

5 minutes ago, yes said:

Y'all really just gonna keep blaming everything on SJW'S and Tumblr instead of trying to to listen to people and understand them... go off, I guess.

yes the comments of the guys she talked to were rude and transphobic, but when debating on whether not wanting to date a trans person is transphobic or not, we don't just have to agree with her because shes trans herself, if a trans person feels like someone not wanting to date them is transphobic it doesn't automatically means that it really is, a gay person can say something is homophobic and makes him feel bad, but that doesn't automatically make his feelings justified 

we can listen but we don't have to agree

[SychosSoChic 9,995]

1 hour ago, gagzus said:

it's funny that we see people online here saying how sexuality is fluid because "it shouldn't matter who you love" but the second y'all see a trans person it's suddenly y'all saying they aint "real"  give me a break.

It's why I don't bother on here anymore

If all a man is to you is his genitalia then you fail at love and need to stop, pause, and think about what you love about your significant other. And try thinking further than the surface in future.

Because if you feel genuine attraction to someone, physically and emotionally, but it all goes away when they reveal that they're trans, then the problem is not their genitalia, but rather that you don't truly see them as men.

Is it transphobia? I'll leave that to actual transsexuals to decide. Is it shallow? Oh Hell yes.

[ItsTommyBitch 12,640]

The excuses ya'll are coming up with to not be labeled "transphobic" are really telling. 

Firstly, the "nice" guy is still transphobic, as he believes she is not a straight woman because she is trans; or he thinks she has a penis or whatever. Also, this guy is not in this woman's mind "nice", lol. To her, this guy is saying "Oh, you're not a real woman. Sorry!" - something she hears all of the time in all aspects of her life. How is invalidating her existence supposed to be perceived as nice? Because he didn't resort to calling her a freak?  Get some perspective folks. 

It is okay to want your partner to have a vagina/penis or whatever, because sex can be an important part of people's short and long-term relationships. However, ya'll gotta get out of here with this "natural" business  If the surgery is done correctly, you might not even realize the difference, so if simply knowing the difference makes.. a difference, then thats telling of you. Some of the responses here might not be blatant transphobia, but a lot of it is just people being super ****ing shallow.

At the end of the day, I just see the word "preferences" used more towards excusing or justiying excluding people from your dating pool (or sex w.e). It's a mask in front of implicit biases and ignorant beliefs rather than an indicator of general taste. Thats what the word "preference" means. You like one thing more than the other options, not "I don't like ___" - the others are still options.

You may believe they save you from the "god awful" condemnation of liberals, SJWs, PC-culture, etc. but they really only keep you fully understanding and engaging with complicated things like gender and race. Feel free to have preferences but at the end of the day, lots of the "preferences" people have really just hold them back from making honest connections with other people - both romantic and sexual.

Spoiler

Also, Blaire White is literally one of the most ignorant trans people I've ever encountered and the alt-right, meninist sphere uses her as their "look, trans people know the truth too!" shtick - when they aren't misgendering her. She's ignorant, even if she means well. Also, shes kind of mean spirited to people  Can we not use her as a source for anything please?

 

[Goosey 3,017]

7 minutes ago, ItsTommyBitch said:

At the end of the day, I just see the word "preferences" used more towards excusing or justiying excluding people from your dating pool (or sex w.e).

Well, as a straight guy, it's my preference to date the female sex. Not to be rude, but frankly, I don't care if my preferences 'invalidate' someone else. It's not my problem if my sexual orientation offends them.

[Lanius 1,055]

3 minutes ago, Goosey said:

Well, as a straight guy, it's my preference to date the female sex. Not to be rude, but frankly, I don't care if my preferences 'invalidate' someone else. It's not my problem if my sexual orientation offends them.

What are you implying with this 

[Goosey 3,017]

1 minute ago, Lanius said:

What are you implying with this 

The title says 'transgender'. What's that implying? 

 

[Lanius 1,055]

1 minute ago, Goosey said:

The title says 'transgender'. What's that implying? 

 

I'm pretty sure when you transition your sex is female as well...

[Goosey 3,017]

1 minute ago, Lanius said:

I'm pretty sure when you transition your sex is female as well...

So you're saying that since this model has transitioned, she is not transgender?

[Lanius 1,055]

Just now, Goosey said:

So you're saying that since this model has transitioned, she is not transgender?

I'm saying the model is a WOMAN

[Goosey 3,017]

Just now, Lanius said:

I'm saying the model is a WOMAN

I respect that, but I'm saying above that I only date people with two X chromosomes (and no extras). That doesn't make me 'transphobic'.  

Some people now think it's not enough to respect people's identities... but you also have to be attracted to them or you are transphobic? Absurd!