Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted March 7, 2017 Author Share Posted March 7, 2017 Just now, Trepadation said: Maternal instinct is one of the most powerful instincts in the world. A woman doesn't have to give birth to experience it ♥️ I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
KateBush 15 Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 So blessed to be inspired and empowered by such a talented, kind human. I still dream of Organon Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted March 7, 2017 Author Share Posted March 7, 2017 6 hours ago, KateBush said: So blessed to be inspired and empowered by such a talented, kind human. Lol my gf always tells me that it's sorta creepy that I call gaga "mama" but my gf had a loving bio mom so she just doesn't get it. My bio mom never wanted kids but she bought into the whole " you aren't a woman unless you have kids" deal which is ****ed up on its own but I digress. She was bipolar and incapable of raising my sisters and I so yeah gaga is "mama" to me because she was there in ways that my bio mom wasn't. She's the closest thing I've ever had to a mom. I promised my dad that I would always take care of my bio mom but sometimes it's so hard to be there for someone who wasn't there for you. I do love my bio mom but I do wish that she had sought help many years ago. Not every woman is cut out to be a mom and that's ok. People treat having kids as a "well I guess we'll have kids now" type of deal and it's like "you're bringing another person into this world not picking between cherrios and cornflakes at the grocery store!!!!!!". Lol on a lighter note it's people like me who pays my therapists salary lol. I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
KateBush 15 Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 42 minutes ago, Letmelivemylife said: Lol my gf always tells me that it's sorta creepy that I call gaga "mama" but my gf had a loving bio mom so she just doesn't get it. My bio mom never wanted kids but she bought into the whole " you aren't a woman unless you have kids" deal which is ****ed up on its own but I digress. She was bipolar and incapable of raising my sisters and I so yeah gaga is "mama" to me because she was there in ways that my bio mom wasn't. She's the closest thing I've ever had to a mom. I promised my dad that I would always take care of my bio mom but sometimes it's so hard to be there for someone who wasn't there for you. I do love my bio mom but I do wish that she had sought help many years ago. Not every woman is cut out to be a mom and that's ok. People treat having kids as a "well I guess we'll have kids now" type of deal and it's like "you're bringing another person into this world not picking between cherrios and cornflakes at the grocery store!!!!!!". Lol on a lighter note it's people like me who pays my therapists salary lol. The more I live, the more I realise family isn't kin, it's who you love. P.s. You and I both have to keep the therapists in a job lol I still dream of Organon Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted March 7, 2017 Author Share Posted March 7, 2017 1 hour ago, KateBush said: The more I live, the more I realise family isn't kin, it's who you love. P.s. You and I both have to keep the therapists in a job lol Exactly. Monsters are family to me ♥️. I met my best friend Mandy at the Monsterball and we've been like sisters ever since. Hell I think I call her more than I call my 2 biological sisters (shhh don't tell them that lol). When she had her accident, I took 2 weeks off of work to fly back to NYC to be with her. I slept in her hospital room on that horribly uncomfortable pull out sofa and I spent my days taking care of her. Once she got better, she asked me "why did you stay?" to which I replied "because you're my sister. Yeah we don't share DNA but we're still sisters. We promised eachother the night of the Monsterball that we would be sisters forever. Forever means forever in my book". So many said I was crazy for taking time off of work. "She isn't even family" they all said. DNA doesn't make you family. That's a privlege that's earned by being there when you're needed the most. We just recently got matching "sisters never pack up" tattoos. She's stuck with me forever hahaha I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
KateBush 15 Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 7 hours ago, Letmelivemylife said: Exactly. Monsters are family to me ♥️. I met my best friend Mandy at the Monsterball and we've been like sisters ever since. Hell I think I call her more than I call my 2 biological sisters (shhh don't tell them that lol). When she had her accident, I took 2 weeks off of work to fly back to NYC to be with her. I slept in her hospital room on that horribly uncomfortable pull out sofa and I spent my days taking care of her. Once she got better, she asked me "why did you stay?" to which I replied "because you're my sister. Yeah we don't share DNA but we're still sisters. We promised eachother the night of the Monsterball that we would be sisters forever. Forever means forever in my book". So many said I was crazy for taking time off of work. "She isn't even family" they all said. DNA doesn't make you family. That's a privlege that's earned by being there when you're needed the most. We just recently got matching "sisters never pack up" tattoos. She's stuck with me forever hahaha Oh wow! Thankyou for sharing such a beautiful story with me!! I am so glad that you two found each other I love how music can bring two people together like this <3 I still dream of Organon Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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