Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 3 minutes ago, T E A said: these! basically, i wouldn't be alive if it wasn't for her. my love for her is beyond. our bond is something i can't even begin to explain. we are forever. period. i love this thread. I had posted a quote yesterday that I had found that reminded me of the bond we have with gaga and I got my f***ing head ripped off by a couple of people saying it was "weird and cringeworthy" that I referred to gaga as Mom. Apparently it was also "weird and cringeworthy" that I mentioned that gaga would go into full "mama bear" mode to protect us if she ever felt we were in danger. In all honesty, my feelings were quite hurt. Just because those people don't consider her "mom" doesn't mean my experiences are any less relevant just because I call her Mom. The thing is, my biological mom wasn't there for me so in a way gaga is my substitute Mom I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 People don't talk about it enough but I think the community also is amazing. Y'all are so open, non judgemental and badass individuals Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 9 minutes ago, MonsterOfSpain said: Someone should pin this post at the top of GGD To some of the people on here, it's considered "weird and cringeworthy" that I call gaga Mom. I know because they told me so. Apparently it's also "weird and cringeworthy" that I mentioned that gaga would go into full "mama bear" mode to protect us if she ever felt we were in danger. I was so incredibly hurt. Just because they don't call gaga Mom doesn't mean I'm weird just because I do. My bio mom wasn't there for me so Gaga is my substitute mom. I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonsterOfSpain 8,305 Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 Just now, Letmelivemylife said: To some of the people on here, it's considered "weird and cringeworthy" that I call gaga Mom. I know because they told me so. Apparently it's also "weird and cringeworthy" that I mentioned that gaga would go into full "mama bear" mode to protect us if she ever felt we were in danger. I was so incredibly hurt. Just because they don't call gaga Mom doesn't mean I'm weird just because I do. My bio mom wasn't there for me so Gaga is my substitute mom. Their loss tbh. Some people just don't have feelings Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
display name 4,360 Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 14 minutes ago, Letmelivemylife said: To some of the people on here, it's considered "weird and cringeworthy" that I call gaga Mom. I know because they told me so. Apparently it's also "weird and cringeworthy" that I mentioned that gaga would go into full "mama bear" mode to protect us if she ever felt we were in danger. I was so incredibly hurt. Just because they don't call gaga Mom doesn't mean I'm weird just because I do. My bio mom wasn't there for me so Gaga is my substitute mom. I wonder if those people have supportive biological mothers. If that were the case, they probably take their situations for granted and don't understand what it's like to not have a mother who's there. I personally think it's great that you feel that kind of support from Gaga. Music can make you feel so many things, love included. I'm glad that, through Gaga and her music, you were able to find love from someone who means a lot to you. Being without that support before Gaga must have been terrible. I have an awesome mother, so I don't know the full extent of your feelings, but I don't think that anyone should be telling you how you should feel or try to make you feel bad or weird or whatever. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 2 minutes ago, Vamp said: I wonder if those people have supportive biological mothers. If that were the case, they probably take their situations for granted and don't understand what it's like to not have a mother who's there. I personally think it's great that you feel that kind of support from Gaga. Music can make you feel so many things, love included. I'm glad that, through Gaga and her music, you were able to find love from someone who means a lot to you. Being without that support before Gaga must have been terrible. I have an awesome mother, so I don't know the full extent of your feelings, but I don't think that anyone should be telling you how you should feel or try to make you feel bad or weird or whatever. I remember a time when I was 15 and I went to crawl in bed with my bio mom because I just needed the comfort of Mom. She turned and told me "what are you doing? You're too old to sleep with me". It's like "that's not the point mom. Just hold me damn it". Lol I know gaga would've been the one to hold up the covers so I could slip in next to her and she would wrap her arms around me because she knows that sometimes, no matter how old you get, you just need the comfort of mom. All of my life there's been a void that's missing and when I found gaga, that void was magically filled. I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monster Voices 1,024 Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 She has helped me so so so much. If I start explaining it will take 3 pages here . But really she is one of the main reasons I am who I am and am alive and well. My only desire left is to be able to tell her as much ... but who knows maybe one day. Forever and Always! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 5 minutes ago, Monster Voices said: She has helped me so so so much. If I start explaining it will take 3 pages here . But really she is one of the main reasons I am who I am and am alive and well. My only desire left is to be able to tell her as much ... but who knows maybe one day. My bio mom wasn't there for me so Gaga became my substitute mama. She's filled the void that I had for so long. After I had my daughter, my biggest fear was turning into my bio mom. My heart just melts every time my daughter says "I love you mommy" because those words represent everything I wanna say to my "2nd mom" I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
BurqaSwg 4,681 Posted September 10, 2016 Share Posted September 10, 2016 She was 'there' with me almost all the time, from bad moments to wonderful memories, like jamming to her music with my friends while creating our outfits for artRAVE She impacted my life so much and I will always be grateful to her. She's one of the two artists who made me cry (really hard) during a concert <3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Letmelivemylife 8,715 Posted September 10, 2016 Author Share Posted September 10, 2016 11 minutes ago, BurqaSwg said: She was 'there' with me almost all the time, from bad moments to wonderful memories, like jamming to her music with my friends while creating our outfits for artRAVE She impacted my life so much and I will always be grateful to her. She's one of the two artists who made me cry (really hard) during a concert <3 Lol reason # 5 million and reason # 5 million and 1 why this is the best fanbase ever. Reason #5 million: lol when I went to ArtRave, the bathroom stall door was broken so I had to pee with no door. There were Monsters doing their make up etc not even caring that I was peeing in plain view. Lol we're the most laid back fanbase ever. Reason # 5 million and 1: Partway through ArtRave, I had a wardrobe malfunction and I had to haul ass to the bathroom to fix it. I had to take the top part completely off to be able to fix it and no one even batted an eye. A few even offered to help. No one cared that they could see my bare boob. The whole reaction was "meh it's a boob. I have them too." I love you monsters. I'd be unfixably broken without you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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