LeoFameMonster 1,592 Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 Yes it was horrible. Twice. I hate talking about it so I won't. I haven't told anyone the details and don't think I ever will. It is really sad to hear how many of you had to deal with this trauma. At least we have each other to talk to about it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle 2,056 Posted February 23, 2016 Share Posted February 23, 2016 Yes, it's not something I want to go into detail about but unfortunately a couple of times. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Illuminati 15,922 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 It's heartbreaking to see that so many people have experienced this, I wouldn't have assumed it was this common. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Born To Slay 10,996 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 No and it's stories like this that have lead me to carry knives everywhere I go. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knife 6,888 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 I've experienced harassment in the form of some crusty, drunk guy grabbing my butt at a strip club. I elbowed him and he stood there like an idiot staring at me, like he was expecting me to be flattered or fall madly in love with him because he sexually harassed me. Not really a traumatizing moment, but it was definitely annoying and rude. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SarahYuko 1,002 Posted February 24, 2016 Author Share Posted February 24, 2016 2 hours ago, BlTCH said: It's heartbreaking to see that so many people have experienced this, I wouldn't have assumed it was this common. The worst part is most victims don't report it, considering how common it is. Most don't think it's worth the trouble or don't feel safe enough to do it. I can only imagine just how many people out there have experienced this seeing as how many just within the GGD community have replied. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheResidentZionist 128 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 Not something I tell alot of people and I won't go into details. But I was date raped. I woke up in a stranger's bed hurting in places you don't want to be hurting in. I had a massive black bruise down my back and arm. I left before he woke up. I never reported it cause I always felt it was somehow my fault. I dealt with it by throwing a brick thru his window and slashing his tires. For a while it physically hurt to be touched anywhere on my chest. I didn't have sex for a year and a half afterwards. The only thing I can say is BE CAREFUL it can happen to anyone. I was with my boyfriend at the time and he was roofied too but began throwing up and went to the bathroom and that's when the guy took me away. So please be careful guys the world can be a frightening place Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Stassi 159 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 I have been touched by my uncle :-/ when I was a 6 yo boy. Don't like talking about it either. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveandMagic 1,731 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 It's always distressing to hear these types of stories. I had a close friend in elementary school who had been abused by a parent and confided to me. It's haunted me ever since. Since college I've run into more and more people that have also been abused (both guys and girls). I myself have had an ex that didn't know the limits. Even long after our break up he has apologized numerous times for what he did, and I do honestly believe he feels regret and is ashamed about it, so I have forgiven him, but a part of me will always have a bit of anger over that humiliation, and because it has negatively affected later relationships. Unfortunately he wasn't the only one who has taken advantaged and hurt me, but I try not to dwell on the past, not when my friends need me and there is so much life left worth living. I want to be happy. **** anyone that tries to take that away. Next guy that tries to put his **** where it doesn't belong will lick my taser. Just repeat to yourself, "It's just a show. I should really just relax." Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadioIsOurs 13,876 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 I thought we were best friends in school, until he started acting weird and touching me softly when I sat beside him, but I always just shrug it off and thought he was just playing. One day he went to sit beside me after playing sports and starting touching me and moved his hand closer to my privates, asking me if I was gay. At this point, i was SO done with him and told him to **** off. Ever since then, I've always given him the cold shoulder. I'm not sure if I should alert this to the teachers. He only did that because he think I was weak minded and would simply give in to him just because I might be gay like him. I also saw him try to do the same with many of his other friends, most of them which are mostly silent and not of high-authority. Such a disgusting person does not deserve to be my friend if he has so little respect for other people and view them as sex objects. But at least it wasn't as serious as rape or anything. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katie14 4,828 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 My brother used to masterbate in front of me when we were young teenagers. I remember thinking it was funny, but now i realize its kind of messed up. This guy at work talks to me in a really inappropriate way, saying how nice i look in certain pants and things like that. People can be really creepy. Im sorry so many people have had real experiences with abuse. Im fortunate that anything i have experienced has been superficial. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
River 117,010 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 My uncle raped me when I was 11. He was in jail for 5 years and few months after the release the mother****ers suicided. Edit: i decided to tell more.. He got only 5 years because during that time I came out of the closet so his lawyer convinced the judge that "maybe" I wanted this............ He's the brother of my mother, we are not in contact with her family anymore because they are blaming me for his death, they are blaming me that I seduced him because I'm gay and I brought this "hell" to him and to the family. So **** them. I'm 27 right now, it stills hurts sometimes but I'm ok... I can tell more if someone is interesting, I'm not ashamed of what happened. So sploosh your juice all over me you Riverboy Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
What About Us 1,499 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 I've been sexually, physically and emotionally abused. When I was 6, my then 17 year old cousin forced me to suck his cock and yelled at me to do it. He locked his bedroom and nobody bothered to help. At that same time, I was physically abused by my stepfather over nothing. When I was 10 and 11, something similar to what my cousin happened to me again. I've also been constantly put down by my family and called atrocious names because of my sexuality and I've lashed back in my own way which was insulting them with my intelligence. It's part of the reason I have post traumatic stress disorder and trust issues today. P.S. - My dad's girlfriend's ex husband did the sexual things to me when I was 10 and 11. He was in his 50's. Promise I'll always be there. Promise I'll be the cure. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopThatArt 2,193 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 I never was but I think it's great and courageous that you're all sharing stories and I commend you for talking about it. Go see A Star is Born Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Whispering 18,865 Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 6 hours ago, Katie14 said: My brother used to masterbate in front of me when we were young teenagers. I remember thinking it was funny, but now i realize its kind of messed up. This guy at work talks to me in a really inappropriate way, saying how nice i look in certain pants and things like that. People can be really creepy. Im sorry so many people have had real experiences with abuse. Im fortunate that anything i have experienced has been superficial. It was messed up. It's okay to know that! Tell that creep that the comments he is making are unacceptable and if he ever makes them again, you are reporting him to the manager/human resources. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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