HIM Memoriam 1991-2017 / Ville Valo

[lego 44,165]

29 minutes ago, Isa said:

I found this video here... Does anyone know if it is real? Did Bam really write this to Ville?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cBJRbR1Wqwg

 

Yeah it's true, Bam is just very immature and he needs to go to rehab.

I agree with this comment under the video

"how can he say Ville never thanked him for promoting HIM. I have seen and read many interviews where Ville has thanked BAM for his help. But Ville also credits social media for their fame. Both are true. It is not uncommon for an addict to distance his/herself from the person who provided them with drugs. From what I've seen in videos and heard from Steve-O in a recent interview, BAM still drinks A LOT. Ville says he quit drinking. It makes sense Ville wants to avoid the main person who never told him 'no' when it came to drugs and alcohol. Maybe they will forgive/forget but it's really hard to say.  Also, BAM has been associating the Heartagram with his band and he did NOT ask permission for that, so I've heard. There are a lot of personal and business reasons for these two to have a falling out. It also seems that BAM expects Ville to apologize to him but has BAM apologized to Ville ever for giving him drugs and basically helping him almost kill himself?"

 

They met after this so maybe they sorted things out, but it will never be the same because Ville wants to stay healthy and sober.

It's ridiculous of Bam to think that Disarm Me was about him.  

[Isa 291]

46 minutes ago, SubRosa said:

 

Yeah it's true, Bam is just very immature and he needs to go to rehab.

I agree with this comment under the video

"how can he say Ville never thanked him for promoting HIM. I have seen and read many interviews where Ville has thanked BAM for his help. But Ville also credits social media for their fame. Both are true. It is not uncommon for an addict to distance his/herself from the person who provided them with drugs. From what I've seen in videos and heard from Steve-O in a recent interview, BAM still drinks A LOT. Ville says he quit drinking. It makes sense Ville wants to avoid the main person who never told him 'no' when it came to drugs and alcohol. Maybe they will forgive/forget but it's really hard to say.  Also, BAM has been associating the Heartagram with his band and he did NOT ask permission for that, so I've heard. There are a lot of personal and business reasons for these two to have a falling out. It also seems that BAM expects Ville to apologize to him but has BAM apologized to Ville ever for giving him drugs and basically helping him almost kill himself?"

 

They met after this so maybe they sorted things out, but it will never be the same because Ville wants to stay healthy and sober.

It's ridiculous of Bam to think that Disarm Me was about him.  

I tought it was fake  that was REALLY immature.

I think Bam takes too much credit, i mean, yeah he helped the guys of the band, he promoted stuff, but? The band made success because it's a good band, the guys worked hard for it, they make good music, and it was not "all on Bam". I think Ville knows that. Bam should go to rehab and i'm sure if he recovered and started to think straight, he and Ville could become friends again, maybe? Because I pity Bam actually, i think he suffers a lot too, he's kind of an attention seeker. And yeah, i think it's ridiculous what Bam and Kat VD did, because they were like "oh, this is about me" and cmon, ok, maybe it can be, but why are you going to post it everywhere and tell it to everybody? Maybe a private email to Ville? It's so weird that they do it, I bet Ville doesn't like it that much.

But yeah, things won't be the same, I guess. The past is over, he has to accept that too. 

[Sister 9,907]

10 minutes ago, Isa said:

Because I pity Bam actually, i think he suffers a lot too, he's kind of an attention seeker. And yeah, i think it's ridiculous what Bam and Kat VD did, because they were like "oh, this is about me" and cmon, ok, maybe it can be, but why are you going to post it everywhere and tell it to everybody? Maybe a private email to Ville? It's so weird that they do it, I bet Ville doesn't like it that much.

Agreed. This is Ville's art that they are putting on blast. We do not even know what is true at all and if Ville is not saying so, we should not believe their word on any of it.

They would get mad if someone did the same with their precious work too, we all know that they would and I believe that both would have a lot to say about it, where Ville doesn't even speak about any of it and just keeps pressing on. It is a bit of bullying, to me. I do not care for these two.

[lego 44,165]

2 minutes ago, Isa said:

I tought it was fake  that was REALLY immature.

I think Bam takes too much credit, i mean, yeah he helped the guys of the band, he promoted stuff, but? The band made success because it's a good band, the guys worked hard for it, they make good music, and it was not "all on Bam". I think Ville knows that. Bam should go to rehab and i'm sure if he recovered and started to think straight, he and Ville could become friends again, maybe? Because I pity Bam actually, i think he suffers a lot too, he's kind of an attention seeker. And yeah, i think it's ridiculous what Bam and Kat VD did, because they were like "oh, this is about me" and cmon, ok, maybe it can be, but why are you going to post it everywhere and tell it to everybody? Maybe a private email to Ville? It's so weird that they do it, I bet Ville doesn't like it that much.

But yeah, things won't be the same, I guess. The past is over, he has to accept that too. 

 

Ville just always liked to point out that he didn't befriend Bam because he was this famous MTV prankster, they met before the Jackass was big in Europe so it happened on Bam's initiative and it was organic, they became friends. Ville let him use heartagram logo so much that many American kids thought it was Bam's own idea and they knew nothing about HIM or their music. Bam is just a superfan who has/had lots of money and connections so he did promote his favorite band, but Ville was never ungrateful for it, he did give him credit. Bam was even mad when Ville named some other guy as his best friend, like who cares? Obsessive much? He should be happy they spent so much time together... Ville almost died that night and I think it was Seppo's idea to keep Bam away at first. Things happen in life and people drift apart, it's sad but it happens...Like you said, he could privately call him or send a message and not like this, to publicly humiliate him on Facebook when he knows that Ville doesn't even use social media. 

Ville just said somewhere "yeah I heard about it(video)". lol 

[lego 44,165]

Also true, they are so talented and they worked really hard. It took time for them to become known in many different countries, all the promo wouldn't work if they sucked as a band.  

[lego 44,165]

 

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[Isa 291]

Seems like I can't post in this thread yet  @SubRosa

[lego 44,165]

1 minute ago, Isa said:

Seems like I can't post in this thread yet  @SubRosa

Now you have 50 posts!

Try in that Random Conversation thread.

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That kosmo facebook thing... both are his, he started on there with his private account, he friended those who wanted (me also) but then it got out of hand so he made the fan page where he updates the most about HIM :-) He doesnt answer his mails, i actually think he has closed it completely because it never delivers it.... I think he got a million mails so he had to. 

That BAM thing, i saw it on facebook the night he posted it, i couldnt help myself, i had to write him a note saying that this was so low of him, and if he truly had a beef with Ville he should take it face to face not here on facebook, where Ville probarbly never would stand a chance to see it, since he doesnt appear to be online.. etc etc..

Love the interview in B&W :-) I could listen to that voice constantly 

[lego 44,165]

@Isa thanks for this, I haven't seen it

http://officialheartagramteam.tumblr.com/post/35653224019/radiorockfi-translation-november-5-9-2012

 

@Sister come to read  

 

Was this one of those radio interviews with Jussi69? Have to find on YT...

[Sister 9,907]

2 hours ago, Isa said:

Seems like I can't post in this thread yet  @SubRosa

You still can not post every place on this forum?

[Isa 291]

18 minutes ago, Tjarnalundi said:

That kosmo facebook thing... both are his, he started on there with his private account, he friended those who wanted (me also) but then it got out of hand so he made the fan page where he updates the most about HIM :-) He doesnt answer his mails, i actually think he has closed it completely because it never delivers it.... I think he got a million mails so he had to. 

That BAM thing, i saw it on facebook the night he posted it, i couldnt help myself, i had to write him a note saying that this was so low of him, and if he truly had a beef with Ville he should take it face to face not here on facebook, where Ville probarbly never would stand a chance to see it, since he doesnt appear to be online.. etc etc..

Love the interview in B&W :-) I could listen to that voice constantly 

Oh really? Bam posted it on facebook?  oh Gosh, he was drunk maybe?

I hope he and Ville got it right after that, when they met.  I don't like Bam but i really think he has mental illness of some kind and should go to rehab and ask for help  he's kind of depressed, idk

Someone sent it to Ville i guess, @SubRosa said he said that he heard of it  i hope it didn't make him sad 

[Tjarnalundi 180]

LOL that interview :-D and this line....

Ville: lovely, lovely. It was snowing and I looked outside and saw this girl talking to phone on my backyard, I asked what the hell are you doing here and she said I’m talking to you and I said no you’re not I’m here and I don’t have a phone in my hand
*break* 

 

Poor poor girl...

[lego 44,165]

"I don’t remember if anyone has ever written a more beautiful love song than this, HIM-bury me deep inside your heart"

Jussi69

 

[Tjarnalundi 180]

Just now, Isa said:

Oh really? Bam posted it on facebook?  oh Gosh, he was drunk maybe?

I hope he and Ville got it right after that, when they met.  I don't like Bam but i really think he has mental illness of some kind and should go to rehab and ask for help  he's kind of depressed, idk

Someone sent it to Ville i guess, @SubRosa said he said that he heard of it  i hope it didn't make him sad 

BAM posted it after that meating if im remembering correct... some time after that last meeting....