faysalaaa 2,936 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 8 minutes ago, Bronco said: So we should educate them on how to protect themselves - but prevent access to the preventative tools needed for safety? You do realise that the European countries you've cited as having "almost none existent" teenage pregancies are also countries where contraceptive access is rated among the most free in the world? https://www.euronews.com/2023/02/13/free-condoms-why-do-some-eu-members-provide-them-and-others-do-not#:~:text=France announced its pharmacies would,has also been rolled out. Having access if different from handing out 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling 31,039 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 4 minutes ago, faysalaaa1 said: You are literally telling me to believe an anecdote experience of a Gagadaily member over statistics Notice how no one is agreeing with you babes. Anyways, free speech. Love you even though we disagree https://discord.gg/hausofdelulu 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ARTPOPKISS 3,334 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 15 minutes ago, faysalaaa1 said: Works in europe WE HAND OUT CONDOMS HERE ASWELL F@ggotry at its finest 5 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
faysalaaa 2,936 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 1 minute ago, BlingNotTheMusic said: Notice how no one is agreeing with you babes. Anyways, free speech. Love you even though we disagree But nobody ever agrees with me here lol I can simply join a bubble where everyone agrees with me, and tell myself im right. I never think im wrong or right based on what majority says, but im open to all their arguments. Thank you for being respectful I enjoy these arguments I learn alot from them Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronco 5,743 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 Just now, faysalaaa1 said: Having access if different from handing out France, Germany, Ireland & the UK provide free contraceptives to teenagers. No one here is suggesting throwing a rubber at a 12 yr old and walking off. What is being advocated is ensuring that teenagers are given access to contraceptives & education. Every single study on this issue has shown that education & easy judgement free access to contraceptives inc condoms reduces teenage pregnacies and reduces the spread of STIs. Studies have also found that 57% of teenagers will have had sex before leaving High School. No teenage boy is going to go shopping for condoms, or book into a clinic to get given them. Very few teens plan out sex. Majority of times they will be hanging out with a friend/romantic partner etc and have a rare moment of being alone at home or they'll be at a house party etc when they have sex. Provision of free condoms through school is the best & simplest way of ensuring their a contraceptive there in the moment. It's the exact same logic that leads to condoms being handed out at Sex Clubs, Saunas, Pride Events, Club Nights etc. In a "spur of the moment" sexual enagement, no one is going to pause to go out to get contraceptives. There will often end up being pressure to carry on without one to not "waste the moment". Making sure that there is an easy in the moment contraceptive available is simple common sense. Not only that but free condoms in school for teenagers reduces the burden on teen girls. It puts more emphasis on joint responsibility for contraception and leads to less girls having to make a solo emergency trip to the clinic for plan B if they weren't already on the pill/had an implant/had a coil etc. 5 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
faysalaaa 2,936 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 5 minutes ago, Bronco said: France, Germany, Ireland & the UK provide free contraceptives to teenagers. No one here is suggesting throwing a rubber at a 12 yr old and walking off. What is being advocated is ensuring that teenagers are given access to contraceptives & education. Every single study on this issue has shown that education & easy judgement free access to contraceptives inc condoms reduces teenage pregnacies and reduces the spread of STIs. Studies have also found that 57% of teenagers will have had sex before leaving High School. No teenage boy is going to go shopping for condoms, or book into a clinic to get given them. Very few teens plan out sex. Majority of times they will be hanging out with a friend/romantic partner etc and have a rare moment of being alone at home or they'll be at a house party etc when they have sex. Provision of free condoms through school is the best & simplest way of ensuring their a contraceptive there in the moment. It's the exact same logic that leads to condoms being handed out at Sex Clubs, Saunas, Pride Events, Club Nights etc. In a "spur of the moment" sexual enagement, no one is going to pause to go out to get contraceptives. There will often end up being pressure to carry on without one to not "waste the moment". Making sure that there is an easy in the moment contraceptive available is simple common sense. Not only that but free condoms in school for teenagers reduces the burden on teen girls. It puts more emphasis on joint responsibility for contraception and leads to less girls having to make a solo emergency trip to the clinic for plan B if they weren't already on the pill/had an implant/had a coil etc. I understand your point more, but I still disagree. Although I do support access and education, but I dont support putting it in school bathrooms. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PartySick 144,830 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 27 minutes ago, faysalaaa1 said: No it would be more like buying my kid candy because its a fact that kids will be kids, and will always want candy, so why not hand it out to them To use your analogy (candy = sex?) then it'd be more like teaching kids how to have a balanced diet, enjoy sweets in moderation, and understand the health detriments to indulging in them too much. Don't think I'll continue this debate 'cause you're getting pretty ganged up on But I mean... 28 minutes ago, faysalaaa1 said: Obviously Christian sex education will lead to that, I dont support progressive or Christian sex education You do though 'cause they want to teach kids nothing but abstinence which historically is why teenage pregnancy and rates of STIs used to be much higher... I mean, you yourself said you had a bad take so good luck defending your stance 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronco 5,743 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 2 minutes ago, faysalaaa1 said: I understand your point more, but I still disagree. Although I do support access and education, but I dont support putting it in school bathrooms. Literally no one is putting it in school bathrooms. They're handed out in Sex Education lessons, by sexual health educators. It's like not even an opinion. There's decades of scientific research behind this approach. It's literally the approach that underpins the global health community's HIV reduction efforts. I fail to understand how you can cite European countries to support your viewpoint, when literaly every European member here is telling you you're ignoring how sexual health in adolescents is handled here. 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
faysalaaa 2,936 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 14 minutes ago, Bronco said: Literally no one is putting it in school bathrooms. They're handed out in Sex Education lessons, by sexual health educators. It's like not even an opinion. There's decades of scientific research behind this approach. It's literally the approach that underpins the global health community's HIV reduction efforts. I fail to understand how you can cite European countries to support your viewpoint, when literaly every European member here is telling you you're ignoring how sexual health in adolescents is handled here. I cant find the clip, but I remember Sunny from the view complaining about her kids school having a box of condoms in the school bathroom. So it is happening, and it is what im talking about, and im against anyone handing underage teens condoms. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
faysalaaa 2,936 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 23 minutes ago, PartySick said: To use your analogy (candy = sex?) then it'd be more like teaching kids how to have a balanced diet, enjoy sweets in moderation, and understand the health detriments to indulging in them too much. Don't think I'll continue this debate 'cause you're getting pretty ganged up on But I mean... You do though 'cause they want to teach kids nothing but abstinence which historically is why teenage pregnancy and rates of STIs used to be much higher... I mean, you yourself said you had a bad take so good luck defending your stance I never said I actually have a bad take, I was just mocking people who keep saying I have bad takes There is many ways to teach kids about abstinence, like shame, guilt, and religion. Other ways can be using practical ways without using shame or morality or condemning behavior. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TortureMeOnReplay 5,796 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 1 hour ago, faysalaaa1 said: No we agree on the reality that kids / teens in America will have sex, all im saying is we can change that reality, while your saying we should just accept it and handout condoms to them. I mean in Europe, teen pregnancy is almost none existance. Even if we cant change it, we should educate them, but we shouldnt give them the condoms like we support them! 11 minutes ago, faysalaaa1 said: I cant find the clip, but I remember Sunny from the view complaining about her kids school having a box of condoms in the school bathroom. So it is happening, and it is what im talking about, and im against anyone handing underage teens condoms. European countries that are part of the EU are legally mandated to follow WHO's guidelines on sex education. So I think you'll be shocked to find out that some countries start their sexuality education at age of 6. They've also stated that abstinence only education does not work and cited that the US mainly only teaches abstinence only while the EU teaches a holistic approach. Meaning they recognize that sex within teens will happen. Note that their way of preventing teen pregnancy is by acknowledging that it is a risk, not trying to "change reality" as with the US and what you are advocating for. I also find it interesting that you choose to cite a talk show host of a tv show known to be overly dramatic and embellished, considering you're invalidating anecdotal evidence of forum members. 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hieronymus 9,671 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 damn. More unplanned teen pregnancy advocates in here than I expected. 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
faysalaaa 2,936 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 5 minutes ago, TortureMeOnReplay said: European countries that are part of the EU are legally mandated to follow WHO's guidelines on sex education. So I think you'll be shocked to find out that some countries start their sexuality education at age of 6. They've also stated that abstinence only education does not work and cited that the US mainly only teaches abstinence only while the EU teaches a holistic approach. Meaning they recognize that sex within teens will happen. Note that their way of preventing teen pregnancy is by acknowledging that it is a risk, not trying to "change reality" as with the US and what you are advocating for. I also find it interesting that you choose to cite a talk show host of a tv show known to be overly dramatic and embellished, considering you're invalidating anecdotal evidence of forum members. I dont invalidate anecdote arguments, but when we have studies and statistics that says the opposite, im not gonna go with the anecdote. And I agree with the WHO's guideline of sex education even younger of the age of 6, I have no issue with that, my only issue is handing out condoms. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bronco 5,743 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 23 minutes ago, faysalaaa1 said: I cant find the clip, but I remember Sunny from the view complaining about her kids school having a box of condoms in the school bathroom. So it is happening, and it is what im talking about, and im against anyone handing underage teens condoms. This sounds heavily like the "schools have litter trays for cat kids" bs. Sunny is a pro-Life conservative who recently supported the Alabama ruling on IVF. Unless there's physical proof, I'm not going to believe her. But even if that were the case. UNFPA's study of nations providing condoms to teens found that it had 0 effect on teenage sexual activity rates. In rich western countries where things like the Pill are available very easily it didn't noticeably impact pregnancy rates but in poorer locations it did. The study also found it reduced STI transmission. There's literally no scientific reason to withhold access to preventative health measures. Abstinence only education is a proven failure and a proven threat to young people. We know teens are having sex. There's literally no way to stop them. If there were we would have found it after 1000s of years of human civilisation. Lets at least make sure they are educated, safe and healthy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
faysalaaa 2,936 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 9 minutes ago, Bronco said: This sounds heavily like the "schools have litter trays for cat kids" bs. Sunny is a pro-Life conservative who recently supported the Alabama ruling on IVF. Unless there's physical proof, I'm not going to believe her. But even if that were the case. UNFPA's study of nations providing condoms to teens found that it had 0 effect on teenage sexual activity rates. In rich western countries where things like the Pill are available very easily it didn't noticeably impact pregnancy rates but in poorer locations it did. The study also found it reduced STI transmission. There's literally no scientific reason to withhold access to preventative health measures. Abstinence only education is a proven failure and a proven threat to young people. We know teens are having sex. There's literally no way to stop them. If there were we would have found it after 1000s of years of human civilisation. Lets at least make sure they are educated, safe and healthy. Okay l believe you if condoms in bathrooms is not a thing And I dont support withholding access to preventative health measures I also dont support Abstinence education, I support education of sex scientifically, but its not the job of schools and governments to give my kids condoms. Leave the morality and incentives out of it, and educate my kids on the science. If you believe your kid will have sex regardless, you can hand them a condoms yourself, but leave my kids out of it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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