SchwineLove 1,374 Posted March 20, 2021 Share Posted March 20, 2021 3 minutes ago, HEARTSTOP said: I mean, you could just read the reply above yours... Then you just don't get it and got trapped in hyper-intellectuallization. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HEARTSTOP 3,151 Posted March 20, 2021 Share Posted March 20, 2021 18 minutes ago, SchwineLove said: Then you just don't get it and got trapped in hyper-intellectuallization. Right... IDGAF Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyhaus 7,697 Posted March 20, 2021 Share Posted March 20, 2021 5 hours ago, Helxig said: Are you kidding? If a child is molested and abused at home and it manifests in extreme behaviours, they should just shut up, get over it, and act like everyone else? Jesus Christ the lack of empathy here. What the person was saying is that noone is a bad person just because they are a bad person. People who act badly are doing so because of extreme pain within themselves that they have faced in their lives, usually childhood. Just telling people to get over their trauma and act like good people is so closed minded and judgemental! Trauma manifests differently in everyone. And yes, these people need help, but the issue is that mental healthcare is not funded and these people often don't receive the help they need! And do you know how incredibly difficult it is to even take the first steps to seek out help? Especially if they are child like Danielle Bregoli was when she was acting out and given a platform on TV and online that encouraged her behaviour. That's if people can even afford it, or know where to go, or even that they need help. And yes there are people who act terribly towards others and use 'mental health' and 'bullying' as scapegoats so they can act badly, but you can't generalise everyone into the same category. Big ****ing yikes. These were my exact thoughts Thank you Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Economy 50,268 Posted March 20, 2021 Share Posted March 20, 2021 7 hours ago, HEARTSTOP said: A bit off-topic but no. Most people who were sexually assaulted are not assholes because of it, nor is it an excuse for it. I am sorry she had to pass through that but her own actions can't be excused by her experiences. At max they can be explained by them but not excused. This is a common thing nowadays, specially with the newer villain/anti-hero movies that glamorize a rough life to make you feel pity for criminals. Joker is a good example for this, where society is blamed for the actions of a murderer. Sometimes people are just assholes, no matter their life experiences. No matter how bad other people treat you, you shouldn't behave the same way if you truly believe it's wrong. On topic: I'm glad she is exposing this fake borderline psycho clown. Trisha Paytas has said multiple times they constantly contact her to create some fake drama in her family just to be on the show, which she has declined after the first time years ago. Danielle was very smart capitalizing on her virality, launching a music career which wasn't all that bad to be honest. But let's not forget she was violent towards her mother and other people, both before and after she was sent to the ranch. To summarize, 2 wrongs dont make 1 right. I think its a solid moral principal that these days gets thrown out the window for some reason and its become popular to justify bad actions because of bad behaviour from another side. For example "walmart has shady practices and record therefore its ok for me to steal from them". Like their shady practices are wrong and you stealing (especially if its not to survive) is still wrong. They dont somehow cancel put eachother OT: i seriously doubt doctor Phill would know these things so i hope he doesnt unfairly get painted as an abuser but nevertheless if all of this is true/not embellished it needs to come out and he needs to acknowledge it and apologize. Stuff like this cant be held accountable if its not shined light on and good for her for speaking about it! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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