Franz Ferdinand 2,359 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 Just now, HeavyMetalLover said: I literally said feel how you want. That is policing to you? Sorry about your friend's cousin - that sucks. Please don't use that to make me feel like I'm telling your friend's cousin to shut up. That's not what's happening here. We're on a Lady Gaga message board and people are acting like clowns (nothing new.) Seems like you know a thing or two about gaslighting. All I said was that we should be cautious about policing people's reaction to this (and calling people as*holes kinda falls in that ballpark). Sometimes those reactions may be very vocal. And sometimes people have a very different perspective than yours on how to react to death and on what is or isn't appropriate. I'm just asking that we are all mindful of those variables rather than go back and forth telling people that their reactions are invalid and inherently makes them bad people. And this goes both ways. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Featured Comment PartySick 172,545 Posted August 16, 2020 Featured Comment Share Posted August 16, 2020 Please chill out, people. Trump is evil but celebrating death is still against our forum guidelines. Don't make us WP in Trump's name please. That's cruel to us Whimsical bitch Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatography 10,186 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 1 minute ago, mauvais said: For real. The only other time I've heard about this man outside his total support for his brother is people rightfully calling the Trumps slumlords + the time when he tried to stop his niece from speaking out the Trumps denying a dying their nephew health insurance. I don't know why people are angry about the lack of platitudes from a couple people. Did anyone come into this thread looking for a quiet place to reflect on the life of this guy? I could understand if @Modern Ecstasy2 commented "lets keep it classy guys" but these two told @EtherealDreams (someone who is literally a part of our community?!?) to go to hell because they didn't like their reaction about a person who is dead (and who will never read these comments... because he's dead!?!) fjdshfsdf like... why is anyone looking at the reactions of a random post let alone getting mad!?! Talk about the Streisand effect. Leeway for the Trumps, no leeway for members of the same community as you, I guess yawn Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
petty 9,412 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 34 minutes ago, lady siwa said: ok but tr*mp doesn’t understand the value of my life ? so I’m just extremely confused why y’all are giving him any understanding here lol Whew this is scolding hot tea im not going to comment on the death of his brother but why would I feel sorry for trump? The people who are "feeling for Trump because the man lost his brother" are clearly not from the U.S. and are not experiencing this presidency first hand. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatography 10,186 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 Just now, PETTY said: Whew this is scolding hot tea im not going to comment on the death of his brother but why would I feel sorry for trump? The people who are "feeling for Trump because the man lost his brother" are clearly not from the U.S. and are not experiencing this presidency first hand. absolutely not one person in this thread i have seen has called for trump sympathy. i certainly did not. i do not feel sorry for trump. but as you said, you’re not going to comment on the death. which is the exact response members have been calling for. just walk away. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatography 10,186 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 1 minute ago, mauvais said: Sleep tight. i will Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
petty 9,412 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 2 minutes ago, Chromatography said: absolutely not one person in this thread i have seen has called for trump sympathy. i certainly did not. i do not feel sorry for trump. but as you said, you’re not going to comment on the death. which is the exact response members have been calling for. just walk away. Someone literally wrote word for word "I don’t like Trump.. like at all, but the man lost his brother. " so that’s the comment that stuck in my head when I wrote my comment. I never said you said anything wrong. But anyways, y’all are really on 100 over this so I’m not going to keep going on about it. Y’all can continue your grieving Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Modern Ecstasy2 2,202 Posted August 16, 2020 Author Share Posted August 16, 2020 “Delete this thread that person is not Gaga he is a hot blonde twink” Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SadBoi808 1,120 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 Maybe his brothers passing.. can like.. make him less of a sociopath? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyMetalLover 16 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 6 minutes ago, PETTY said: Someone literally wrote word for word "I don’t like Trump.. like at all, but the man lost his brother. " so that’s the comment that stuck in my head when I wrote my comment. I never said you said anything wrong. But anyways, y’all are really on 100 over this so I’m not going to keep going on about it. Y’all can continue your grieving I don't feel sorry for Trump or feel sympathy for him at all. He disgusts me and I can't stand him. How I react is with empathy for hearing that someone has lost their sibling. It's not fake or performative, it's a reaction. I didn't write that comment, but that's what I inferred from it. I strongly dislike Trump, but that doesn't negate or dictate empathy that I may feel. I hope that makes sense... i don't remember ARTPOP Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShtoopidLahv 710 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 30 minutes ago, Majora said: @ShtoopidLahv @EtherealDreams How are you guys gonna tell us to mind our own business when you’re CELEBRATING someone’s death right in front of us? Even though his brother is Trump how dare you find happiness in someone’s death? It’s not like he’s Hitler. Like is this the hill you really need to die on tonight? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lady siwa 967 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 5 minutes ago, HeavyMetalLover said: I strongly dislike Trump, but that doesn't negate or dictate empathy that I may feel. I hope that makes sense.. I (I’m and sure others with feelings similar towards mine) understand where you’re coming from but some of y’all are negating and dictating the lack of empathy we feel like i- the hypocrisy lol Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyMetalLover 16 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 Just now, lady siwa said: I (I’m and sure others with feelings similar towards mine) understand where you’re coming from but some of y’all are negating and dictating the lack of empathy we feel like i- I'm sorry that's how you feel. Goodbye. i don't remember ARTPOP Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
KillerMonster 2,361 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 I couldn’t imagine the pain of losing a sibling. Don’t play with me, it just hurts me. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chromatography 10,186 Posted August 16, 2020 Share Posted August 16, 2020 1 minute ago, lady siwa said: I (I’m and sure others with feelings similar towards mine) totally understand where you’re coming from but some of y’all are negating and dictating the lack of empathy we feel like i- no ones saying you can’t feel how you feel, you just don’t need to broadcast it. that’s all. for the record as well, i don’t claim the opinion about the “he’s not hitler” post. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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