weed 73,890 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 GGD loves to **** on Sam since the Oscar, sorry you’re bitter and sad but keep getting flustered over them living their life! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas P 18,479 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 4 hours ago, HighwayGuy said: Can we stop claiming Sam Smiths gender identity isn’t valid and give a WP to those who do? This is supposed to be a LGBT* friendly forum and it’s bad for the mental health of non-binary people like me who see blatant transphobia on this forum @Admin I feel horribly for you and other NB people on this site. If people on this site were saying these ignorant things about gay people, WPs would be handed out. I’m a simple guy to please, if you like Melodrama, we chill. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 8 hours ago, Squeeshy Keety said: Literally you don't have to pretend you want to know the answer. Your mind is made up Which is fine, but just be honest fr Calling someone transphobic just because they don´t share the exact same opinion as yours is judgmental and ignorant. People can disagree on how they view a certain matter and still be OK with it. Just because you don´t share the same perspective on homosexuality, trans, bisexuality, etc. it doesn´t mean you think less of them as human beings and it does not make you phobic to that topic. Stop calling people homophobic or transphobic just because they don´t have the same view as you do. And the person asking you about "what a woman thought is", is definitely a question that deserves a well thought out answer not just a label of phobic. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 What people should do rather than immediately label someone as TRANSPHOBIC, is explain to those who might have questions about it. It´s fair that people don´t know or understand everything about gender, sexual preferences and sex, so show that you are kinder and smarter by answering to those who might need some help understanding. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnnyVersace 9,023 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 9 hours ago, KyaneWest said: And ur still not answering my question about "what is a woman thought" because u cannot answer it so ud rather call me transphobic. Sure it had nothing to do with it but I decided to talk about it and say that he seems to say things that make no sense a lot of time. Sam might have misspoken, that doesn't negate the thoughts or feelings they felt that guided them to change their identity and pronouns. You're just looking for a way to discredit them. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 1 minute ago, JohnnyVersace said: Sam might have misspoken, that doesn't negate the thoughts or feelings they felt that guided them to change their identity and pronouns. You're just looking for a way to discredit them. Calling someone transphobic just because they don´t share the exact same opinion as yours is judgmental and ignorant. People can disagree on how they view a certain matter and still be OK with it. Just because you don´t share the same perspective on homosexuality, trans, bisexuality, etc. it doesn´t mean you think less of them as human beings and it does not make you phobic to that topic. Stop calling people homophobic or transphobic just because they don´t have the same view as you do. And the person asking you about "what a woman thought is", is definitely a question that deserves a well thought out answer not just a label of phobic. What people should do rather than immediately label someone as TRANSPHOBIC, is explain to those who might have questions about it. It´s fair that people don´t know or understand everything about gender, sexual preferences and sex, so show that you are kinder and smarter by answering to those who might need some help understanding. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
blankpaper 21 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 5 minutes ago, Guapo said: Calling someone transphobic just because they don´t share the exact same opinion as yours is judgmental and ignorant. People can disagree on how they view a certain matter and still be OK with it. Just because you don´t share the same perspective on homosexuality, trans, bisexuality, etc. it doesn´t mean you think less of them as human beings and it does not make you phobic to that topic. Stop calling people homophobic or transphobic just because they don´t have the same view as you do. And the person asking you about "what a woman thought is", is definitely a question that deserves a well thought out answer not just a label of phobic. What people should do rather than immediately label someone as TRANSPHOBIC, is explain to those who might have questions about it. It´s fair that people don´t know or understand everything about gender, sexual preferences and sex, so show that you are kinder and smarter by answering to those who might need some help understanding. If someone’s “opinion” discredits someone else’s identity, it isn’t valid reality’s tight if the music is right Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maleficent 6 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 9 hours ago, KyaneWest said: That reminds me of when they said "I definitely realized I was woman once I started having woman thoughts" lol bye he's very delusional, sorry THEY are very delusional did he honestly say this? it’s downright misogynistic. being a woman can not be watered down to “having woman thoughts” how did he not get dragged for this. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnnyVersace 9,023 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 26 minutes ago, Guapo said: Calling someone transphobic just because they don´t share the exact same opinion as yours is judgmental and ignorant. People can disagree on how they view a certain matter and still be OK with it. Just because you don´t share the same perspective on homosexuality, trans, bisexuality, etc. it doesn´t mean you think less of them as human beings and it does not make you phobic to that topic. Stop calling people homophobic or transphobic just because they don´t have the same view as you do. And the person asking you about "what a woman thought is", is definitely a question that deserves a well thought out answer not just a label of phobic. What people should do rather than immediately label someone as TRANSPHOBIC, is explain to those who might have questions about it. It´s fair that people don´t know or understand everything about gender, sexual preferences and sex, so show that you are kinder and smarter by answering to those who might need some help understanding. Excuse me, where in my post did I call anyone transphobic or say that I think less of them? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 6 minutes ago, JohnnyVersace said: Excuse me, where in my post did I call anyone transphobic or say that I think less of them? It came across like that sorry but I just copied and posted on your reply. All I am saying is rather than labeling someone as something (I must admit I have done it) it´s better to explain maturely our point. By labeling someone rather than providing a broader perspective we´re not helping either. It´s sort of like perpetuating this retrograde and old idea that gays are feminine, lesbians are manly or that heterosexual people are homophobics, ect. The point here is that JUST because someone does not fully comprehend a topic does not automatically make them dislike that topic or that they hate or are phobic to that matter. We are becoming so sensitive to that point of being insensitive with those who we think don´t share our same values and ideas, and rather than help them understand we immediately call them out and rub it on their faces as if that will have positive impact. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squeeshy Keety 9,908 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 3 hours ago, beabeaxo5 said: As a trans woman, I'm denouncing this "umbrella". Non binary people (not all) are injecting themselves into identities of trans woman and it's not right. Transgender people are focused on changing their gender. This is not the case for someone who is gender non-conforming which focuses on changing gender roles and expression. It also isn't about what you think is inclusive and exclusive - you'd never let a white person represent a person of colour. This is where (as an actual trans woman speaking about trans issues) a distinction needs to be made. I'm sorry you feel this way. Unfortunately, you are simply wrong as are your perceptions about nb and gender non-conforming people. Our experiences are vast and wide spanning, but they are so much more like yours than they're not, and the huge majority of us would never say the same things about you. I hope you get there some day. They / Them 🏳️🌈 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen Bitch 10,513 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 People are still refering to Sam as "him" and "he" Ya'll really don't have any respect @Cookie Tookie I don't see what's so funny. Please enlighten me. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAMROD 109,646 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 Pronouns is important, it is identity of someone. If you didn't know prior, that is fine. But when you are reminded of it, don't deflect and trying to argue about it. You don't make the rules of someone else's life. But if you already been reminded numerous of time but didn't budge, then you're an @$$, honestly. Honestly, there are still parents out there who addresses their children with pronouns that they don't feel belong to. Those brings unhappiness to a person, even depressions. That is horrible thing to do, and I hope y'all, the much younger and more well educated people, don't do the same mistakes that they did. Time is changing, evolve. Expand your mind. That is how you will survive. (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ✧*:･ﾟ dancin' until i'm dead (*´艸｀*) ♡♡♡ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
COOOK 76,406 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 Pink lemonade sipping on a Sunday Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
cassavetes 381 Posted April 20, 2020 Share Posted April 20, 2020 some of you are pathetic and need to do some serious research. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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