chipz 1,202 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 He's so right at once! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GagaOhhLaLa 2,737 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 Is he the most attractive person? No am I? hell no But I would never call him repulsive because of how he looks. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gypsy 3,826 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 He's not ugly he's just not that good looking he's a very nice man though and personality says more than looks. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FameHookah 4,646 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 28 minutes ago, Jigglygoth said: NOT you dragging him while attempting to defend him . He's ugly, period, who cares. I felt attracted to ugly men dozens of times. In fact, not even once I fell for someone solely because of their looks. Physical appearance is overrated, y'all give way too much power to it. I understand him being insecure tho, if you're in the same industry as people like Ricky Martin, etc, I guess it's easier to feel terrible about the way you look . But he should relax, being ugly is NOT a crime, and being ugly =/= being unnatractive. You can be ugly and attractive, personality does count. I'm sure if he made it as far, he's charismatic enough to be considered attractive by most, he should love himself more 💋. He is NOT ugly to me he just needs to groom himself a little bit more. WTF is MDNA Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSUNAMI 21,088 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 24 minutes ago, CautiousLurker said: Damn, your responses reek of insecurity - like, this reads so much like someone who's trying to feel good about themselves by putting others down... sad I get that this kind of response often comes from hurt, but there are healthier ways to process whatever feelings ail you - you chose to be hurtful, so... you're free to not respect whatever 'our society' and 'norms' are meant to be in your little head, and go about bashing other people for their looks, in turn other people won't respect you - sounds fair? Good Sis... stop projecting. 31 minutes ago, SHALLOW said: Well, ok, but expect to be hurt in return By whom? Someone who can't accept that there are people with negative feelings? Nah. I will not sell myself out "to be loved" by users here. I sad what I said and I agree with all of you. Yeah, it is horrible to say that and hear that from someone but it is my truth and yall should respect that. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
zakariah 11,722 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 thats sad to hear, but ironically, I think those face tattoos are the reason why most people think he's 'ugly' Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
CautiousLurker 19,476 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 8 minutes ago, JFK said: Sis... stop projecting. How am I projecting? When have I called someone's appearance repulsive on a forum and then defended it by comparing bashing someone's appearance to gay erasure? Just because you saw that word being used in social discourse doesn't mean it's applicable everywhere - discerning patterns in someone's behavior is not projection... Similarly just because you saw people from marginalized groups weaponize their marginalized status doesn't make it a valid defense for reprehensible behavior... Also demanding respect when you're the one being disrespectful - nice It's a joke! When you give me that look, it's a joke! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quartz 12,555 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 Here's a guy who opened up about his insecurities, being vulnerable. Then there's you stabbing that exposed area with sharp knives. Guess what? Being vulnerable and open takes strength. Being an *sshole and hurtful is weak. Shows more about your own insecurity and unhappiness tbh. Inside, we are really made the same. 🕊 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHALLOW 16,453 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 12 minutes ago, JFK said: Sis... stop projecting. By whom? Someone who can't accept that there are people with negative feelings? Nah. I will not sell myself out "to be loved" by users here. I sad what I said and I agree with all of you. Yeah, it is horrible to say that and hear that from someone but it is my truth and yall should respect that. Sis, it is your truth but i think your truth can change. You don’t have to say what you think 100% of the time. You’re not a 2 y.o. If you don’t have something nice to say about someone, then consider not saying anything. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHALLOW 16,453 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 1 minute ago, Quartz said: Here's a guy who opened up about his insecurities, being vulnerable. Then there's you stabbing that exposed area with sharp knives. Guess what? Being vulnerable and open takes strength. Being an *sshole and hurtful is weak. Shows more about your own insecurity and unhappiness tbh. Yep. I never listened to his music but I admire him for that Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Defmix100 6,419 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 8 minutes ago, CautiousLurker said: How am I projecting? When have I called someone's appearance repulsive on a forum and then defended it by comparing bashing someone's appearance to gay erasure? Just because you saw that word being used in social discourse doesn't mean it's applicable everywhere - discerning patterns in someone's behavior is not projection... Similarly just because you saw people from marginalized groups weaponize their marginalized status doesn't make it a valid defense for reprehensible behavior... Also demanding respect when you're the one being disrespectful - nice this site is absolutely full of people who body shame and look shame (I don't see the difference between that and the bullies so many apparently had), but then they say "not very born this way of you" if it's anything negative about their fave. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
uo111 5,266 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 I was thinking that eventually he would become more mature, get over his insecurities, and then realize what a mistake those terrible tattoo’s were. But then I remembered he is a pop star and pop stars never mature. Doomed to be insecure for life. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimmo 81,069 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 1 hour ago, Andreu said: @Kimmo its your chance sis Why does this happen when I’m asleep.... MY MAN!!!!! Hottie Detector Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sepsami 19,082 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 34 minutes ago, JFK said: Sis... stop projecting. By whom? Someone who can't accept that there are people with negative feelings? Nah. I will not sell myself out "to be loved" by users here. I sad what I said and I agree with all of you. Yeah, it is horrible to say that and hear that from someone but it is my truth and yall should respect that. Don't get defensive when people call you an a*shole then, I'm just telling you "my truth" Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSUNAMI 21,088 Posted March 5, 2020 Share Posted March 5, 2020 Just now, Sepsami said: Don't get defensive when people call you an a*shole then, I'm just telling you "my truth" I aint being defensive I'm just laughing at you calling me out for being offensive YET you're offending me. I have nothing else to add anymore. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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