I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 On 1/1/2020 at 1:49 AM, TheQueenEnthusiast said: You. Are. Ignorant. And you're having fun being a troll. Someone get a moderator or something. We do not need your bi-erasure here ESPECIALLY since this is an online safe space for LMs whom many are queer. X Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nathantj594 901 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 Just now, TheQueenEnthusiast said: Hey the way you're wording this is totally fine. Innocent questions are fine. People rather you ask questions from your heart rather than some assholes ^ like you're currently doing. Anyways, invalidating bisexuality is simply just not it. Bisexuality is once again, simple attraction to male and female dichotomy for the most part. There are plenty of men who are much older that were never able to come out because of homophobia and biphobia in their communities. I leave you with a rhetorical question: Does this make them heterosexual if they've been in a relationship with a woman their entire life and have kids? No no no! That’s not what I’m asking. I’m not saying he’s an in the closet gay guy. I’m saying why is he still calling himself bi if he’s committed to a guy for the rest of his life? I’m not trying to invalidate his bisexual. If the relationship is gonna be guy-guy until one of them dies, why wouldn’t that be a gay relationship? And Paula Abdul ain’t got [BLEEP] on me! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daylight Jokers 14,958 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 9 minutes ago, nathantj594 said: This is an innocent question I swear! Every bi guy I ask in real life always gets pissed when I ask so I never get a straight answer... How come when bisexual people get in a homosexual relationship, and it is a hella lasting relationship. Like marriage and house and cats and even kids. How come they (like years later) still call themselves bi? I have a friend who came out as bi in high school and has yet to ever date a girl as long as I’ve known him (almost 10 years now) and has only had sex with a girl once (in a three-way with a guy) and has been in a monogamous guy-guy relationship with a fully gay dude for more than 5 years now. They have the house and the marriage and the cats and are considering kids. He still calls himself bi. If I got married to a bi guy and after half a decade and a house together, he still said there was a chance he might leave me for a woman?!!!! Why not just be fully gay at that point? I’m not trying to criticize either. I’m just curious. A lifelong same-sex commitment seems like it should be labeled as a gay relationship. Every time I ask him he gets very defensive and says “well we might not be together forever and feelings don’t change like that” but he’s ****ed like 50 guys from ages [redacted] to like 75. And why get married to someone and brag about how committed you are if you think you might not be together forever? I mean if he died that would different. Can someone explain this to me because I really don’t understand. Because they're still also attracted to the opposite sex. They just don't act on it anymore because, well, they're already married. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheQueenEnthusiast 937 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 Just now, mgmpochhit said: I'm sorry you live in bubble. People that don't share your same perspective are ignorant to you? I have NOT made a comment about the way people should or shouldn't live their sexualities. All I did was express my skepticism towards Gaga's bisexuality which if it bothers you then you'll live eternally unhappy and mad at people who don't agree with you on every topic you think you're right. You're being extremely disrespectful to me. You're going as far as to ask me to BEGONE, calling me IGNORANT and all because I dare to put Gaga's bisexuality into question. She's a public person and her every moves are always being subjected to escrunity from the GP. If that bothers you than that's not something I can help you with. Yes I disrespected. Yes I think you're ignorant. Girl so does everyone else. Buy Applause on iTunes Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nathantj594 901 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 5 minutes ago, nenhures said: Being bi isn't a state of mind or a modifier. You don't stop being capable of being attracted to more than one gender just because you're in a relationship with someone. The same way you don't stop being gay when you're single. Bisexuality simply means being attracted to more than one gender and it isn't defined by who you're currently in a relationship with nor does it evaporate over time. They can choose to label their relationship as a gay relationship because it's between people of the same gender and it's simpler to convey to outsiders but that doesn't mean all the parts in said relationship identify as gay. Bi people get offended when you ask this question because it implies bisexuality is a phase or a liminal state until you reach a "true" and "valid" sexuality which is utter bullshit and a big part of bi erasure rhetoric. Hope that explained it. Okay. You don’t have to swear at me. I tried being nice. But oh well I guess. I don’t think I’m being understood here. I don’t and do not and never will think bisexuality is a phase or invalid. I could cuss back at you but I won’t! Happy New Year, everybody. And Paula Abdul ain’t got [BLEEP] on me! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheQueenEnthusiast 937 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 1 minute ago, nathantj594 said: No no no! That’s not what I’m asking. I’m not saying he’s an in the closet gay guy. I’m saying why is he still calling himself bi if he’s committed to a guy for the rest of his life? I’m not trying to invalidate his bisexual. If the relationship is gonna be guy-guy until one of them dies, why wouldn’t that be a gay relationship? Oh sis then I dunno ...at the end of the day if he labels himself that, what are we gonna do? be like "nah"? That's threading on dangerous ground which personally none of us should do. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 On 1/1/2020 at 2:00 AM, TheQueenEnthusiast said: Yes I disrespected. Yes I think you're ignorant. Girl so does everyone else. Buy Applause on iTunes X Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheQueenEnthusiast 937 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 Just now, mgmpochhit said: At least you admitted you're being disrespectful towards me. You've been reported again.. Girl a moderator will literally just see this conversation and admit you're being openly disrespectful to this community. Please just stop you're embarrassing yourself. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 3 minutes ago, nathantj594 said: Okay. You don’t have to swear at me. I tried being nice. But oh well I guess. I don’t think I’m being understood here. I don’t and do not and never will think bisexuality is a phase or invalid. I could cuss back at you but I won’t! Happy New Year, everybody. I wasn't swearing at you at all nor did I think your comment was offensive, I was genuinely trying to explain to you why they get offended and elaborated on why bi people in same gender relationships still refer to themselves as bi. I understand that it's hard to convey intentions through the internet and I'm sorry that I came off as rude but I really don't see how you interpreted my comment as an insult Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
nathantj594 901 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 1 minute ago, TheQueenEnthusiast said: Oh sis then I dunno ...at the end of the day if he labels himself that, what are we gonna do? be like "nah"? That's threading on dangerous ground which personally none of us should do. That’s true. I live in a very conservative place and his family has some very conservative money and power and a lot of us think he just softened the blow to them by saying he’s bi. Not to take anything away from him if he actually is. But none of us have ever even heard of any female celebrities he thinks are hot. It’s all guys. And we’ll never know which of the guys in the three way actually [redacted] the [redacted] because the other guy was straight and drunk and it traumatized him. But that’s not to say much cause I’m no gold-star gay myself. I don’t know. I guess I’ll never get it. He can be whatever he wants to be I guess. I’m just kinda looking out for his husband I guess. And Paula Abdul ain’t got [BLEEP] on me! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
I LOVE GGD 1,247 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 On 1/1/2020 at 2:06 AM, TheQueenEnthusiast said: Girl a moderator will literally just see this conversation and admit you're being openly disrespectful to this community. Please just stop you're embarrassing yourself. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
letsgetdirrty 470 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 3 hours ago, Adarsh said: They might not have had a lot of money back then, it was when they had just started out Doesn’t the label pay for that stuff? Xtina | Gaga | Britney | Madonna | Beyoncé | Janet | Ciara | Ashanti | Brandy | Monica | Paula | Jessica Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MonSwiftAnton 3,824 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 12 hours ago, MonSwiftAnton said: I'm sorry guys. I do feel what you're saying but I just got home from a NYE party and don't have an opinion or thought for once. Edit: Please don't hate me @Doot . You're a sweetheart. Edit 2: Oh and you too @Economy Edit 3: I'm clearly not a class act. @Doot I know you have a bf but I believe you're my soulmate. Oh god. I'm sorry Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
illySpencer 1,434 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 12 hours ago, Doot said: I feel like Katy has often times come across as the person who tries desperately to be friends with people without it feeling organic. That is call KINDNESS. Period. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
illySpencer 1,434 Posted January 1, 2020 Share Posted January 1, 2020 7 hours ago, TheQueenEnthusiast said: My boyfriend is literally bisexual and I'm the first guy he's EVER been with. Bisexual people DO NOT and NEVER WILL have to explain themselves to other people in the queer community or cis heterosexuals. Gaga literally has a song about an orgy like sis has PLENTY of sex and plenty of songs hinting as lesbian encounters and sex Poker Face - "She's got me like nobody" Gaga on The Fuse said it was inspired by her fantasying about A GIRL Sexxx Dreams - "Heard your boyfriend was away this weekend, wanna meet at my place?" Unless she's talking about a gay man... then... So Happy I Could Die - "I love that lavender blonde, the way she moves, the way she talks. I touch myself, can't get enough" Americano - "SHE sang in eighths and two barrio chords, we FELL IN LOVE but not in court" Yo like she's bisexual let it go. The way you're setting everything up this bi-erasure makes you a biphobe OMG what !!!! Since when her lyrics define her ? She could easily talk about someone else or a fictive character. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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