Wendy speaks her truth

[Jill 30,258]

1 hour ago, Image said:

they did her wrong with that thumbnail

 

nice first impressions you got there

[Shale101 99]

Still not totally buying this story....it's not making sense.  I feel like she HAD to have some kind of break down and spill the beans to the viewers because everyone has been coming for her so hard and not believing her bullshit.  She didn't admit to using drugs recently.......hmmmm......if you are gonna have a break down and spill the beans then DO THAT.  Tell it all...."i've fallen off the wagon" or whatever.  You mean to tell me a multi millionaire celebrity is nonchalantly going to meetings with the regular people?  THEN to top it off you mean to tell me your living in a "sober home" with smell boys and away from you husband to stare at the ceiling at 10pm??  If you aren't doing drugs why the need to stay at a place like that when you have a luxurious  home.  I'm sure you can hire people to watch you around the clock and hold you accountable for any things you may be trying to do.  It doesn't make sense or even sound like her style (then wendy who likes to hide at home and peep through the blinds).  If she really has gotten back into drugs maybe its from some sort of stress happening in her life.......AKA the cheating controlling husband.  This sounds like another excuse or half truth to me.  Seems like she is just trying to get people off her back. 

P.S. just rewatched and the " you know kevin I launched " bullshit comment really bothers me.  Like he is telling her or advising her what to say to throw everyone off this story of him being a cheater.  She mentioned his name constantly in her speech  when she first came back and seems to still be doing the same.  Trying to show us they are a united front or something.  I don't buy it girl!

[LateToCult 40,910]

24 minutes ago, Shale101 said:

Still not totally buying this story....it's not making sense.  I feel like she HAD to have some kind of break down and spill the beans to the viewers because everyone has been coming for her so hard and not believing her bullshit.  She didn't admit to using drugs recently.......hmmmm......if you are gonna have a break down and spill the beans then DO THAT.  Tell it all...."i've fallen off the wagon" or whatever.  You mean to tell me a multi millionaire celebrity is nonchalantly going to meetings with the regular people?  THEN to top it off you mean to tell me your living in a "sober home" with smell boys and away from you husband to stare at the ceiling at 10pm??  If you aren't doing drugs why the need to stay at a place like that when you have a luxurious  home.  I'm sure you can hire people to watch you around the clock and hold you accountable for any things you may be trying to do.  It doesn't make sense or even sound like her style (then wendy who likes to hide at home and peep through the blinds).  If she really has gotten back into drugs maybe its from some sort of stress happening in her life.......AKA the cheating controlling husband.  This sounds like another excuse or half truth to me.  Seems like she is just trying to get people off her back. 

P.S. just rewatched and the " you know kevin I launched " bullshit comment really bothers me.  Like he is telling her or advising her what to say to throw everyone off this story of him being a cheater.  She mentioned his name constantly in her speech  when she first came back and seems to still be doing the same.  Trying to show us they are a united front or something.  I don't buy it girl!

Perhaps she didn’t mention she did drugs recently because she doesn’t want to get fired. Or maybe she’s been experiencing stronger urges to do drugs because of her recent health issues so she decided a sober house was her best option. There are tons of reasons why hiring someone to look after her at home wouldn’t work for someone who is serious about their sobriety.

[Shale101 99]

5 minutes ago, LateToCult said:

Perhaps she didn’t mention she did drugs recently because she doesn’t want to get fired. Or maybe she’s been experiencing stronger urges to do drugs because of her recent health issues so she decided a sober house was her best option. There are tons of reasons why hiring someone to look after her at home wouldn’t work for someone who is serious about their sobriety.

And there are tons of reasons why staying in a "sober home" wouldn't work for some one who is serious about their sobriety............AND i just read the dailymail article........seems to make A LOT of sense if you ask me........girllllllll bye......trying to get ahead of the stories coming out against her

[LateToCult 40,910]

13 minutes ago, Shale101 said:

And there are tons of reasons why staying in a "sober home" wouldn't work for some one who is serious about their sobriety............AND i just read the dailymail article........seems to make A LOT of sense if you ask me........girllllllll bye......trying to get ahead of the stories coming out against her

What exactly are you arguing? I was pointing out that it makes sense that someone who is serious about their sobriety would choose a sober home as a place to get better. The Daily Mail article doesn’t say sh*t about her lying about being in a sober house.  

[Shale101 99]

22 minutes ago, LateToCult said:

What exactly are you arguing? I was pointing out that it makes sense that someone who is serious about their sobriety would choose a sober home as a place to get better. The Daily Mail article doesn’t say sh*t about her lying about being in a sober house.  

My point is your argument is flawed ....if someone wants to get drugs......they will get drugs where ever they are.....including a sober home.  

[Varys 30,891]

2 minutes ago, Shale101 said:

My point is your argument is flawed ....if someone wants to get drugs......they will get drugs where ever they are.....including a sober home.  

Isn't that why she has a 24h sober coach?

the daily mail article says he goed even to the toilet with her

[LateToCult 40,910]

2 minutes ago, Shale101 said:

My point is your argument is flawed ....if someone wants to get drugs......they will get drugs where ever they are.....including a sober home.  

No. My argument was that a sober house is probably the best option she could think of if she’s serious about her sobriety. It’s true that a person who wants drugs can find them easily. Especially if they have the money that Wendy does. But unlike a rehab center or her home, a sober house is smaller and eliminates a lot of opportunities to get a hold of a substance you’re addicted to and has a more personal atmosphere because you’re genuinely living and having more natural interactions with other people trying to get better.

[Shale101 99]

6 minutes ago, Varys said:

Isn't that why she has a 24h sober coach?

the daily mail article says he goed even to the toilet with her

24 hour sober coach isn't going to do anything......drug addicts will  always find a way if they WANT to......especially if they are as rich and powerful as wendy.  

[Shale101 99]

2 minutes ago, LateToCult said:

No. My argument was that a sober house is probably the best option she could think of if she’s serious about her sobriety. It’s true that a person who wants drugs can find them easily. Especially if they have the money that Wendy does. But unlike a rehab center or her home, a sober house is smaller and eliminates a lot of opportunities to get a hold of a substance you’re addicted to and has a more personal atmosphere because you’re genuinely living and having more natural interactions with other people trying to get better.

her best option would be to get rid of that husband lol

[JustAnother 5,113]

4 minutes ago, Shale101 said:

her best option would be to get rid of that husband lol

No profile pic, non-Gaga related username, and a newbie? We got a troll on our hands we  

[LateToCult 40,910]

1 minute ago, Shale101 said:

her best option would be to get rid of that husband lol

But she’s already struggling with addiction again. I agree, her husband is probably causing her major problems but the first thing she needs to do is get a better grip on her addiction.

[Shale101 99]

9 minutes ago, JustAnother said:

No profile pic, non-Gaga related username, and a newbie? We got a troll on our hands we  

Where exactly did I troll? 

[PoetsTryinWrite 1,262]

6 hours ago, slayo said:

I am still confused... what exactly did she admit to? All I heard is that she's been sober for 4 years but still is actively struggling and working on her recovery everyday.

Speaking as someone who attends Cocaine's Anonymous and has a very responsible job, it can be frightening to tell what we call "normies" (non-addicts) the exact extent of our work. "You go to meetings every day? Isn't that a bit much?" The frequency of attendance can indicate to some people that we're constantly in a desperate struggle. This is untrue. One of my best friends is 32 years sober and still attends every day. We have our reasons. It's just frightening to speak them whilst there is still stigma. ASIB was wonderful in abating some of that. People can struggle to believe we have a disease. I'm proud of Wendy for sharing her experience, strength and hope with us as it may very well have saved lives.

[Epione 10,896]

Did not expect that. She should really say something about her cheating husband. Everyone knows it, but she pretends like nothing happens. Then you end up in sober home. But it’s enough news for one day I guess.