Regina George 59,387 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 3 hours ago, MJHolland said:  Rape is rape is rape is rape.... Jesus. ****ing. Christ. Rape is having sex with someone without consent. Saying no makes it rape. Once you say no, stop, etc., it is rape. You shouldn't be blamed for not "fighting back." You were f*cking raped. Sorry dude but this is just... this is just ignorant as F*CK. You're clearly either a kid or not mature enough to understand consent or have ever met somebody who was sexually assaulted/have an experience of your own. When you're abused by a friend, loved one, or family member, especially at a young age, it f*cks you up and you freeze and who can't fight them off. It's psychological terror to be abused like that. Shame on you. No, shame on u for asuming stuff about me when you actually donât know **** about me! I am female and I know that I would ****ing destroy the person in that situation. Being young is something, but giggling while someone is doing something to you is W R O N G and in no way indication that u donât want it. Also letâs not talk about how I donât know anyone who was rapped - Half of woman in my ****ing family are rapped in war that happened 20 years ago INCLUDING MY GRANDMA - she was not just rapped, she was murdered afterwards and I know for a FACT they all fought back, they did everything they could cuz they HAD TO. And donât u ****ing dare talk about me and my knowledge. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regina George 59,387 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 2 hours ago, Kattys said: It disgusts me that you don't know basic human biology and how state of shock can work on a person sometimes you CANNOT MOVE not even talking about leaving a place, ugh, get education So weâre going to say that she was in a state of shock for 2 days and she couldnât have done anything by tomorrow? She couldnât have left the place when her âfriendâ was basically forcing her to have sex day before? Again - asuming **** about me and attacking me wonât help u or anyone in this discussion. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
brit4ever 2,034 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 3 hours ago, RAMROD said: The bias is real with some of y'all. But what else is new Didn't see any of you pull that "innocent until proven guilty" when it was a man who got accused or "waiting for the accuser to tell her part of story" or shxt like that. Well, what do you wish her to say? She will of course deny it cos it will destroy her career. Or admit what she is doing is wrong and apologize for it but that is all as if by apologizing it suddenly make the victims days becomes all summer breeze and sunshine. This is why rape victims didn't say anything, cos they will not be trusted, accused for being attention seeking, and all that. If y'all wanna be SJW about things, do it full force, regardless of race, sex and gender. Otherwise stop saying shxt at all tbh cos you are just another hypocrite. Thanks!!! I can't at how hypocratical some people are. When it was man being accused everyone wanted to tear them appart, but when it's Melanie Martinez for example - "i hope it's not true", ït can't be true", "I'm shocked...." and etc. Hypocrites  Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
doppelganger 3,743 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 39 minutes ago, ReginaGeorge said: No, shame on u for asuming stuff about me when you actually donât know **** about me! I am female and I know that I would ****ing destroy the person in that situation. Being young is something, but giggling while someone is doing something to you is W R O N G and in no way indication that u donât want it. Also letâs not talk about how I donât know anyone who was rapped - Half of woman in my ****ing family are rapped in war that happened 20 years ago INCLUDING MY GRANDMA - she was not just rapped, she was murdered afterwards and I know for a FACT they all fought back, they did everything they could cuz they HAD TO. And donât u ****ing dare talk about me and my knowledge. Iâm sorry that happened to your family but I cannot agree that the victim has to fight back - mental manipulation/abuse is a huge part of sexual abuse. Saying ânoâ just one time is more than enough for a person to stop pursuing sex. It happens a lot, but itâs a culture that just has to stop. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Regina George 59,387 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 3 minutes ago, doppelganger said: Iâm sorry that happened to your family but I cannot agree that the victim has to fight back - mental manipulation/abuse is a huge part of sexual abuse. Saying ânoâ just one time is more than enough for a person to stop pursuing sex. It happens a lot, but itâs a culture that just has to stop. All I wanted to say is that it is not enough for a person that is able to rape someone. They just donât know that no means and that wonât stop them. It should be enough and it is enough for every rational person but for psychopaths itâs just not. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FABian 852 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 This girl is ridiculous. She's painting herself out to be a victim even BEFORE she talks about her alleged sexual assault. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
doppelganger 3,743 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 4 minutes ago, ReginaGeorge said: All I wanted to say is that it is not enough for a person that is able to rape someone. They just donât know that no means and that wonât stop them. It should be enough and it is enough for every rational person but for psychopaths itâs just not. Itâs partly a cultural acceptance that it is okay to constantly pursue and harass others for sex. This needs to change. The more that we say that isnât acceptable will hopefully create that change. I live in a muslim country, where women are told that they have to grant their husbands sex when asked (and thereâs no such thing as marital rape here). It isnât necessarily that the husband mean harm but no is no. With awareness things are slowly changing and hopefully the rights of married muslim women in my country will improve once the paradigm has shifted Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
AJK273 2,700 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 I am waiting to see how her label respond to this. As a society, I don't think we can cherry pick who we punish. Kevin Spacey lost house of cards, Weinstein lost his company, she should loose her recording contract. That to me seems fair. Messy, Petty, Beautiful, Covergirl Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeDontStop 909 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 i refuse to believe this. i am heartbroken. no, this cannot be happening. no i got the boys in dubai Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoshLife 16,846 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 2 hours ago, FABian said: This girl is ridiculous. She's painting herself out to be a victim even BEFORE she talks about her alleged sexual assault. So we're just saying anything now? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryanripley 86,575 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 1 hour ago, ARTPOPrincess said: i refuse to believe this. i am heartbroken. no, this cannot be happening. no melanie basically admitted it  https://goo.gl/xMgMvJ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryanripley 86,575 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 3 hours ago, FABian said: This girl is ridiculous. She's painting herself out to be a victim even BEFORE she talks about her alleged sexual assault. Â her story turned out to be true so i wouldn't go bashing her for being a victim yet https://goo.gl/xMgMvJ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ryanripley 86,575 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 4 hours ago, MetalliGa said: Was the act shown in Instagram live? Were there pictures? yeah and also she posted the story in Twitter .. and melanie herself confirmed it happened  she just denied that the girl said no https://goo.gl/xMgMvJ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laceface 2,964 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 I have no idea who Melanie is but my reaction is the same disgust as all these other hollywood stories coming to light. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
One Five Ten 70 Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 Sheâs going to lose her recording contract and never work again. Look at what happened to PWR BTTM earlier this year. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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