The only thing I’m going to say about the “mommy girl” backlash

[Adakam 2]

3 hours ago, Alexander Levi said:

Again, no need to bully.

BUT that doesn’t mean we can’t discuss what is wrong with her behavior 

Thats still bullying, not because you dont say it to her face doesnt mean its right.

Or would you like a pop forum to make a thread about you and 'discuss' your behaviour, or the way you dress, or the way you speak?

[LordEnigma 11,313]

1 hour ago, Adakam said:

Thats still bullying, not because you dont say it to her face doesnt mean its right.

Or would you like a pop forum to make a thread about you and 'discuss' your behaviour, or the way you dress, or the way you speak?

That makes zero sense 

Shes in the movie for a reason. And the director made it QUITE obvious otherwise they wouldn’t have put the “mommy” part in there.

The lady agreed to be in the film, otherwise they would have blurred her face out.

Im not bashing her by saying there’s something wrong with stalking celebrities. It’s actually a good reminder that celebrities are people too and they deserve privacy as well.

[PeterPan 0]

5 hours ago, OBEY said:

I'm so lost who is that girl even

The girl in the documentary that called gaga mommy like 4 times

[PeterPan 0]

1 hour ago, MaryJaneHolland said:

Yes, I know who she is, I'm just wondering why all the fuss over her calling Gaga 'mommy'

It was cringey lol

[Letmelivemylife 8,715]

As I've said before, it was gaga who referred to herself as mother monster and as she said her her tweet, she still refers to herself as that. She even has it permanently inked on her body. We don't know that girls story and gaga may very well be the closest thing she's ever had to a mama and so "mommy" just feels natural because that's what gaga represents to her. Gaga means different things to different monsters and just because some are a little more attached doesn't mean they should be bullied for it. As gaga said in her tweet it isn't delusional or weird. We just have a very unique bond

[GagaUnderYou 4,981]

I'm sure they're fans that call male artist Daddy and people think it's fine. Let the girl be. Isn't it weird Gaga calls herself Mother Monster and tatted it on her? The inclusion of the whole Mommy thing was just to show how crazy her life can be with people talking at her all day. Hence why it was emphasized.

[He8MyHeart 9,765]

The main issue I have with this girl is how she treated Gaga as a commodity instead a human being. The only thing she seemed to care about was a photo and not about Gaga herself.

[lego 44,165]

6 hours ago, Alexander Levi said:

Yes, there is something odd about her behavior. 

I’m a fan and I follow this site avidly. However, once you get to a certain age you should be able to decipher what this relationship with Gaga is. She’s a human and she needs privacy and space. She feels used by people who want her picture to post on social media instead of having a genuine meeting.

It would **** me up to have people be huge fans of my art and when they meet me, not even say a word to me and except to beg for a picture. It’s scary and sad that she is seen in this way. Idk, we think this is normal but just imagine if you were Gaga and had people following you everywhere you go for a picture... and not just one or two people but hundreds.

 

Also these are the people who have met her numerous times, not just once. I have seen comments on Twitter by some of these privileged NY monsters, like they didn’t bother to see Gaga “at the location” because she had “boring, ugly outfit on”.  Imagine being that shallow, treating her as an object, a barbie doll;  knowing you could take selfies with her so many times, so you choose to do it if you like her outfit first. 

 

[lego 44,165]

Mommy is the new I’ve been waiting for 12 hours!!

 

 

Gaga doesn’t want anyone in this fanbase to be bullied, it doesn’t mean she’s enjoying being stalked and asked for a picture 20+ times by the same person, I’m sure she remembers those same faces.

She knows it’s all about bragging on social media. She talked against it. 

Also when these fans have multiple selfies with so many other celebs, it seems even more shallow. Everyone is “queen” to them. 

 

[Benji 20,113]

I don't know why people are so bothered by her.  Yes, it is cringey calling her mummy but she struck me as a "vulnerable" person... I don't understand how people feel comfortable attacking her over this.

[Edonis 28,950]

8 minutes ago, lego said:

 

Also these are the people who have met her numerous times, not just once. I have seen comments on Twitter by some of these privileged NY monsters, like they didn’t bother to see Gaga “at the location” because she had “boring, ugly outfit on”.  Imagine being that shallow, treating her as an object, a barbie doll;  knowing you could take selfies with her so many times, so you choose to do it if you like her outfit first. 

 

This 100x 

Everyone is coming to the defense of NYC Monsters and it’s like...there’s more to the story than people know. Those fans are not all innocent. Don’t normalize that kind of behavior. 

Anyways, it’s still not cool to bully someone so I don’t think it’s okay to trash talk her or whatever. But it should be fair to criticize that kind of behavior and the toxic sides of being in a fandom, so long as it isn’t malignant in nature. 

[Letmelivemylife 8,715]

1 hour ago, Edonis said:

This 100x 

Everyone is coming to the defense of NYC Monsters and it’s like...there’s more to the story than people know. Those fans are not all innocent. Don’t normalize that kind of behavior. 

Anyways, it’s still not cool to bully someone so I don’t think it’s okay to trash talk her or whatever. But it should be fair to criticize that kind of behavior and the toxic sides of being in a fandom, so long as it isn’t malignant in nature. 

Ah yes the NYC monsters. We're all part of the little monster "family" and lord knows I love this "family" but SOME of the NYC monsters are a special kind of stalker. It's one thing if you run into her by random chance but to wait for her for hours just for a picture just seems so wrong. Some look at her like " if I get a pic with her I can get X amount of likes on Twitter, Instagram, etc" and that's just so wrong. You're using her at that point

[Edonis 28,950]

3 minutes ago, Letmelivemylife said:

Ah yes the NYC monsters. We're all part of the little monster "family" and lord knows I love this "family" but SOME of the NYC monsters are a special kind of stalker. It's one thing if you run into her by random chance but to wait for her for hours just for a picture just seems so wrong. Some look at her like " if I get a pic with her I can get X amount of likes on Twitter, Instagram, etc" and that's just so wrong. You're using her at that point

Yeah it can be toxic. And I do want to emphasize, there are really good, cool, sweet fans in NYC (part of the reason Gaga loves that place) but there are some pretty downright terrible people disguised as fans lmao

[babs 5,093]

10 hours ago, ryanripley said:

nobody deserves to be bullied and that's that on that

I wish we could just be the messy sassy gay ass humble and kind troupe Gaga envisions us to be but some fans have to go the lenghts and f*ck it up 

[babs 5,093]

34 minutes ago, Letmelivemylife said:

Ah yes the NYC monsters. We're all part of the little monster "family" and lord knows I love this "family" but SOME of the NYC monsters are a special kind of stalker. It's one thing if you run into her by random chance but to wait for her for hours just for a picture just seems so wrong. Some look at her like " if I get a pic with her I can get X amount of likes on Twitter, Instagram, etc" and that's just so wrong. You're using her at that point

nnnnnnnng I have been wanting to meet her all my life and now that I have the chance if I have to go to NY and wait some hours for her to show up at x place then I'm willing to tbh