FentyGa 14,340 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 1 hour ago, Laceface said: Depends on their personality & facial features overall? I wouldn't disqualify someone from dating based on their race? What if you really hit it off, sure, you may have a preference or 'type' like blue eyes etc but there are always exceptions. It's more about the connection but swiping left and right on social dating sites have made things massively shallow, it's literally like shopping. I think as a lot of you grow up, you'll realise it's more about the chemistry/connection/how the person treats you rather than solely about looks or race. Someone being kind and caring can instantly make them a lot more physically attractive to me. Maybe he means for sex, not dating. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
hausoffame 388 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 Why condemn him for it? If that's what he's attracted to, than so be it. At least he's honest. I think he's adorable. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Knife 6,888 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 Y'all could have that gargoyle. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magneto 13,434 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 He's trolling so hard Free my mind Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Ryan 1,468 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 He's not gay. Frank Ocean is like his "best friend." He's obviously joking it's Tyler The Creator. He's making fun of some of you guys "I'm afraid" Lol Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
EmeraldHeart 335 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 20 hours ago, Lanius said: What do you think this? @EmeraldHeart and before any of the mods get trigger happy with the WP. I'm cool with emerald heart It's not surprising, white dudes held up as the ideal. What people don't get is how much deeper this is than "Oh, it's just an innocent preference based on a physical trait" ^This is sociological. We see from studies that on dating apps: * White men get more replies from almost every group. *Black men and women get the lowest response rates to their messages. Peoples preconceived notions of black men and white men, stereotypes, eurocentric standards of beauty are among the factors that lead to these differences. There seems to be some weird idea that because it's subconscious, and people can't control it, their fetishised ideas of race can't be racist or problematic. Like... Sure you can't control who you're attracted to but your sexuality didn't develop in some bubble that's void of any influence from the complex relationships we have with race in the outside world. Maybe somebody can fetishise race in a very dehumanizing way, in a way that reduces the complexity of a person and makes them seen as two-dimensional, and have no control over their sexual fantasies. Maybe somebody can be influenced by a society that sees whiteness as attractive and blackness as unattractive and also internalize those racist ideals through no fault of their own. Lets just all stop pretending that because something is subconscious or because an individual 'can't help' who they are attracted to their 'preferences' can't be racist and harmful. It's clearly a race issue, we can see clearly from the data that this is a sociological phenomenon, the fetishisation or idolization of certain races is problematic, people's dating 'preferences' can be racist and discriminatory I also think it's easy for many people here to dismiss this as a non issue while not having to face the realities of dating while black. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
inuborg 4,136 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 @Lanius Sis let it go lol I root for you. I love you. You, you, you, you. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak 6,653 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 If anyone can explain why it seems that it's only white guys that people go for then I'll take the whole "it's just a preference" thing seriously cause otherwise... Take a moment to think of just flexibility, love, and trust~ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
IllumiMark 974 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 I have always heard about him, but never knew who he was until today. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrismugler 944 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 As a Caucasian, gay latino man, I declare I'm into all races. B.B.A. / Music Lover / Human. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emvee 8,407 Posted July 16, 2017 Share Posted July 16, 2017 Get in line Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
aaronyoji 2,054 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 On 7/15/2017 at 11:07 AM, OliverViennese said: I see all those gay-****bois on Grindr with their "No Asians", "No Blacks", "No Arabs" bullshit, but I had no idea I'd see them here, too... exactly. i see so many grindr profiles looking like a 50s bathroom sign "whites only" its disgusting. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZephyrInTheSky 1,235 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 I dont believe Tyler is gay or bi at all. He's such a troll lol If you've seen any of his interviews. There can be 99 bottoms in the area but all it takes is 1 top to believe in you. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HaveAnOysterBBy 796 Posted July 17, 2017 Share Posted July 17, 2017 He's not even cute so he should probably take any race he can get Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
En_Sabah_Nur 9,359 Posted July 18, 2017 Share Posted July 18, 2017 "Tyler The Creator had the Internet buzzing earlier this month after alluding that he is gay on his new album Scum F**ck Flower Boy — but now the eclectic rapper has everyone talking for a different reason. Video footage has been making it’s rounds of Tyler not only revealing that he’s into guys, but only a particular group. When asked to describe Norwegian girls, the Odd Future emcee replied, “They all got this look. Yeah, but I’m into dudes though.” The young, White kid interviewing Tyler then asked, “Black dudes only?” But the L.A. native quickly said, “I don’t like Black dudes at all. I’m into White guys.” Tyler’s former group mate, Frank Ocean, opened up about his sexuality back in 2012, however he never spoke out about his the men he likes. We expect to hear comments like this from rappers like Kodak Black when referring to Black women, but it comes as a surprise to hear the usually open minded Tyler The Creator make such a statement. Thoughts?" SOURCE: https://globalgrind.cassiuslife.com/4231265/watch-tyler-the-creator-says-hes-only-into-white-men/ Egypt. W Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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