Guest Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 3 minutes ago, ReidOne said: I totally support your OP, but you might want to reconsider the way you've said this, as your statements infer that being a bottom is emasculating. I know that's not your belief/intention, but that is how it reads. No offense meant. I agree. looking back, I should've better elaborated on how its inferred by others' stereotypical opinions that being a bottom is demasculating and apparently equivalent to that of being a Lady Gaga fan. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJHolland 12,725 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 22 minutes ago, lavenderblonde said: Please enlighten me as to what those other indicators could possibly be no comment Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erich Johnson 2,920 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 5 minutes ago, lavenderblonde said: It seriously is freakin astonishing. Theres even one instance when this guy and I went out and the date was going so well until I mentioned Lady Gaga when we were on the subject of music. And I'm pretty sure he was a bottom assuming that I was a bottom so I wouldn't be able to satisfy his needs I guess. I don't know. He kind of cut me off and briefly got In touch with me to let me know I'm too feminine to be a top... But I never heard from him again after. Thanks Lady Gaga. it's sad... even facing the prejudice in the skin most gays are sexist and racist, and very stuck to stereotypes of masculinity and beauty. It's basically all about selfish thought that moves our consumerist society. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GloZell Green 11,723 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 19 minutes ago, Poissonche said: But seriously guys, I want to know how it is to be a straight male in this very gay fan base, because the only straight guy I know who likes Gaga isn't straight anymore (). How is it? Do you keep it a secret around girls so they don't assume you're gay? Or are you out Gaga fans and don't give a **** about what people think? They assume we are But eventually we find out and clear everything up. Also whenever I enter a thread about a male artist Lady Gaga | Shakira Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 2 minutes ago, Erich Johnson said: it's sad... even facing the prejudice in the skin most gays are sexist and racist, and very stuck to stereotypes of masculinity and beauty. It's basically all about selfish thought that moves our consumerist society. You hit the nail right on the head. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poissonche 12,365 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 3 minutes ago, GloZell Green said: They assume we are But eventually we find out and clear everything up. Also whenever I enter a thread about a male artist hmm daddy quench my thirst with this loooong answer Spoiler OK that was on purpose Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
notamember 667 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 I definitely agree, it's super annoying. I'm not a bottom, so I basically have to hide the fact that I am obsessed with Gaga until the person knows I'm a top Don't get me wrong though, there is nothing wrong with being a bottom, embrace that sh*t! I just don't want someone to get the wrong idea and not be interested after figuring out I'm not what they thought I was Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatAsianGuy 2,365 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 IKR! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 1 minute ago, notamember said: I definitely agree, it's super annoying. I'm not a bottom, so I basically have to hide the fact that I am obsessed with Gaga until the person knows I'm a top Don't get me wrong though, there is nothing wrong with being a bottom, embrace that sh*t! I just don't want someone to get the wrong idea and not be interested after figuring out I'm not what they thought I was But that's the unnecessary struggle. Whoever makes you feel like you have to hide your love for Lady Gaga so they don't assume you're a bottom instead of a top... that person needs to go get a life. uggghhh . . . You don't need that negativity in your life. this is why open minded guys get me down to me undies quicker than shallow pretty boys. . . Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyboi12 2,125 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 22 minutes ago, mudast said: Lady Gaga: Queen of bottoms, power bottoms, and as of recently: indie bottoms. Ain't that the truth Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyboi12 2,125 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 2 minutes ago, lavenderblonde said: But that's the unnecessary struggle. Whoever makes you feel like you have to hide your love for Lady Gaga so they don't assume you're a bottom instead of a top... that person needs to go get a life. uggghhh . . . You don't need that negativity in your life. this is why open minded guys get me down to me undies quicker than shallow pretty boys. . . I'm very open minded, where are you from? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yuuri 21,636 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
DAVID VOGUER 1,956 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 They can't scare me, if I scare them first. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
DAVID VOGUER 1,956 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 3 minutes ago, Misaki said: I'm both Gaga and Lana fan... Oh no, I'm ****ed... ... What about Madonna tho? They can't scare me, if I scare them first. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
notamember 667 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 14 minutes ago, lavenderblonde said: But that's the unnecessary struggle. Whoever makes you feel like you have to hide your love for Lady Gaga so they don't assume you're a bottom instead of a top... that person needs to go get a life. uggghhh . . . You don't need that negativity in your life. this is why open minded guys get me down to me undies quicker than shallow pretty boys. . . I agree. I'm not masculine or feminine, I'm a hybrid () . I've started to care much less though, I even put "Buy Perfect Illusion on iTunes" on my Grindr profile also...it helps if you flat out state which position you prefer in your profile. Not everyone is comfortable with that, but I'm quite open minded. Although, not everyone uses Grindr and that wouldn't work for most other social media. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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