Brian Ryan 1,468 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 Just now, Paper Gangsta said: i didn't say he did as i said i copied that quote from another site, it doesn't even say he explained it but "one can assume". but thing is people did use it that way. not everyone did but you can't say noone did. anyways even without giving head thing or other stuff, becky is still a stereitypical name just like these other ones she gave examples are. and she had bad experience with it so she doesn't want people call her like that and thats all she asked. she didn't shade bey not her good hair line stereotypes come from somewhere... I guess white people are the only ones with good hair with that notion Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lego 44,165 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 "My name is Iggy and you will all call me that." Ok, Becky. FreePalestine Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paper Gangsta 6,693 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 4 minutes ago, BrianxRyan said: stereotypes come from somewhere... I guess white people are the only ones with good hair with that notion im not talking about good hair part im talking about name "becky", noone in the thread was even discussing "good hair" thign. stop twisting my words Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Ryan 1,468 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 Just now, Paper Gangsta said: im not talking about good hair part im talking about name "becky", noone in the thread was even discussing "good hair" thign. stop twisting my words anyway goes back to listening to Beyonce'... think what you want becky could be anyone if people think it's a white woman by all means fine and yeah it goes right along with that line Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koreku 2,387 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 I never even thought about Becky meaning a white person where are people digging these conclusions from? You don't deserve a point of view if the only thing you see is you. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Ryan 1,468 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 7 minutes ago, Paper Gangsta said: Why did she feel the need to do this? She annoys me. I'm still rooting for her though. I wish she would listen to T.I. and focus on the music. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
KingRedd 3,139 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 Idk. Where I'm from 'Becky' means a woman who gives head to guys often lol. My black cousin is named Rebecca and we call her Becky for short. So I'm not into the whole "Becky has to be a white girl" thing lol I understand what she's trying to say but coming from a girl that says, "I'm a run away slave master" ummm no thanks lmao May I Read You? 😎 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry 26,836 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 shut up becky Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paper Gangsta 6,693 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 4 minutes ago, BrianxRyan said: anyway goes back to listening to Beyonce'... think what you want becky could be anyone if people think it's a white woman by all means fine and yeah it goes right along with that line again, im not talking about bey ... neither did iggy and good idea, lemme listen it too Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Ryan 1,468 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 Just now, Paper Gangsta said: again, im not talking about bey ... neither did iggy and good idea, lemme listen it too B obviously sparked the conversation. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sexxx 5,667 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 5 hours ago, MJHolland said: *Iggy says something about race* *GGD pounces on her* *A. Banks says something about race (like shitting on all white people* *GGD champions her* Theres a double standard and you all seem so damn racist lol... Literally me Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paper Gangsta 6,693 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 4 minutes ago, BrianxRyan said: B obviously sparked the conversation. well fan got inspired by her lyric, but her response had nothing to do with the song, just her personal experience with the word Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Illuminati 15,955 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 She has a point there whether you like it or not lol Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrawberryBlond 15,024 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 36 minutes ago, BrianxRyan said: That song was about giving head from all types of women. Plus, Plies did not come up with the term Becky. My gawd. You guys seriously make me want to laugh when you come up with these conclusions about black people/culture and you do not what the hell you are talking about or looking too much into it. I laugh at how you accused me of not looking at things deeply enough when I dismissed your suggestion that Beyonce and Rihanna only get compared because they're black, but when an issue comes up concerning a slang term that's translated as being negative to white women, you say that we're looking into things too deeply. Are white people's opinions never valid to you? Are black women the only ones who deserve support? 5 minutes ago, KingRedd said: Idk. Where I'm from 'Becky' means a woman who gives head to guys often lol. My black cousin is named Rebecca and we call her Becky for short. So I'm not into the whole "Becky has to be a white girl" thing lol I understand what she's trying to say but coming from a girl that says, "I'm a run away slave master" ummm no thanks lmao Fair enough, until you find out that most people consider it to be a white girl's name, just like other similar names. I remember watching an episode of Tyra Banks where she asked a group of people to voice their perception of someone just based on their name alone, no visuals. When the name Ashleigh came up, almost everyone, including white people, said that they thought this was a white, blue-eyed, blonde girl and that she was spoiled, dumb and promiscuous. They also thought Deedrica was a black woman who was sassy and promiscuous and that Jose was a Mexican drug dealer. Now, obviously, that's just this small group of people. But I think it gives a glimpse into how judgemental we can be, even when it comes to something as apparently irrelevant as a name. So, I'm not taking this Becky thing lightly. If we go lightly, the name can gain status, it can spread and gain acceptance just because it's a term for whites, who can't be hurt, or so we're led to believe. If we just dismiss it, we're complicit in it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
migamiga 12,102 Posted April 27, 2016 Share Posted April 27, 2016 6 hours ago, Iwontell said: I'm not asian, but I'm "Cack Ling" (ba-dum-tsss) (Jk, you guys. Jk) I'm Asian and I thought this was hilarious OT: FOH tryna play the reverse racism card when she don't even acknowledge her white privilege Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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