lego 44,165 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Also was she talking about real rape or was it like, he manipulated her to get a record deal, so she thought she should give him what he wants and years later realized it was a mistake? She said to Wendy Starland "I'm ready to do anything". Also in HS interview she said "producers who claim they worked with Beyonce", and Fusari did claim that.I don't think it is... she said that the person was like 20 years older than her. Is Fusari? Edit: Fusari was 29 in 1998, so would've been... 39 in 2008. When Gaga was 22. Hm. Well yeah around 20, she didn't want to be precise. FreePalestine Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
orb1tx 128 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Me thinks no flies come to closed mouths! sometimes Gaga talks too much sh... and now its come back to bite her in the a... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schwerk 7,061 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 then he's bi, but still I just can't believe he RAPED her Gaga said it would be EASY for us to figure out who...it's someone we know she worked with before the FAME (RedOne). She basically said it's Rob Gaga avoided using the word rape. Rape has many definitions which are very personal. It's not just rape when a woman is physically forced to have s-x, it can be more mental. To me it sounds she was s-xualy abused by someone manipulating her into thinking it was a good thing and normal to have an unequal s-xual relationship. She did it against her will, and that means she was raped. She was taken advantage of by an older man. And it sounds like that man was Rob Fusari. According to Gaga I'm a ****ing rad bitch Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimisaMonster 31,073 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Gaga avoided using the word rape. Rape has many definitions which are very personal. It's not just rape when a woman is physically forced to have s-x, it can be more mental. To me it sounds she was s-xualy abused by someone manipulating her into thinking it was a good thing and normal to have an unequal s-xual relationship. She did it against her will, and that means she was raped. She was taken advantage of by an older man. And it sounds like that man was Rob Fusari. She didn't have to SAY rape to mean she was raped. I think it was hard even for her to talk about her experience let alone say the words..."I WAS RAPED!" Rob probably s-xually manipulated her into doing some questionable things and being so young (19 or 20)...it's a scary situation when someone is practically forcing themselves on you/in you. I also don't think it was just "molestation" if she said she practically wanted to ignore it happened and then it led her to d--gs and alcohol during TFM/BTW era Stream my new single, 💜"Heartbeat"💜, on Spotify! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lego 44,165 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 "I was a shell of my former self at one point. I was not myself. And it  to be fair, I was about 19. So, you know  I went to Catholic school and all this crazy stuff happened. I was going, 'Oh, is this just the way adults are?'...I was very naive." She added, too, "It happens every day. It's really scary and it's sad. It didn't affect me as much right after as it did about four or five years later. It hit me so hard. I was so traumatized by it that I was like, 'Just keep going.' Because I just had to get out of there... I wasn't even willing to admit that anything had even happened." http://jezebel.com/lady-gaga-tells-howard-stern-she-was-raped-at-19-1665816286 FreePalestine Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Schwerk 7,061 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 She didn't have to SAY rape to mean she was raped. I think it was hard even for her to talk about her experience let alone say the words..."I WAS RAPED!" Rob probably s-xually manipulated her into doing some questionable things and being so young (19 or 20)...it's a scary situation when someone is practically forcing themselves on you/in you. I also don't think it was just "molestation" if she said she practically wanted to ignore it happened and then it led her to d--gs and alcohol during TFM/BTW era Exactly, like I was saying. I do feel she purposely avoided saying the actual word rape and didn't go into detail, not only because of her own feelings, but also not to 'sentence' her molester. For some reason she (for now) has never pressed charges against him or anyone else who molested her, and she doesn't seem to plan to. According to Gaga I'm a ****ing rad bitch Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tokyo Rose 1,475 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Me thinks no flies come to closed mouths! sometimes Gaga talks too much sh... and now its come back to bite her in the a... I hope she keeps speaking out against these creeps! And based on your words, this probably isn't the site for you. You don't sound like much of a fan Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katie14 4,828 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Gaga said it would be EASY for us to figure out who...it's someone we know she worked with before the FAME (RedOne). She basically said it's Rob This was her response when Howard asked her why girls let guys get away with it [touching], they weren't talking about rape yet. She said "I don't really" and then says that it would be easy to figure out. She wasn't referring specifically to the rape. She doesnt mention being raped at 19 until later in the interview. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
VTV 12,769 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 The face of a straight man... then he's bi, but still I just can't believe he RAPED her Gaga said it would be EASY for us to figure out who...it's someone we know she worked with before the FAME (RedOne). She basically said it's Rob that face was used to hide his real personality, like, he heard that gagz was speaking up so he do that transformation thingy to confuse the fact that he once abused gagz. like, if u would listen to the interview when asked about gagz, he quickly denied it even b4 he was asked. guilt? shame? idk. he needs to reconcile with ha soon. as well as Martin Kierszenbaum aka cherry cherry boom boom :cry: Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Jeans 3,815 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 I feel kinda uncomfortable talking about this. I mean... What's in the past belongs to the past, and this is Gaga's story. I must say though that all of you pointing fingers at Fusari is pretty weird, 'cause we all know Gaga and Fusari were an item (or maybe they weren't after all...?). I really don't know what to think anymore. I mean... they've worked a lot together, and to this day she still performs songs they've worked on together (Paparazzi). As for Joe Vulpis, he did work with Gaga in the pre-Fame days, but I doubt she would be taking pictures when meeting him again if he had indeed abused her: She said in the Howard interview that the Guy who did that to her and also was working with her, talked to the media and said that they were dating.. and she was in shock because it was brand new information for her.. so the age difference, the fact that he was a producer, the fact that its reported that she dated Rob Fusari, all the signs are there... I truly believe it was him... plus she said that it happenned when she was 19, and thats when she met him. Destiny is for losers. It’s just a stupid excuse to wait for things to happen instead of making them happen Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
orb1tx 128 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 I hope she keeps speaking out against these creeps! And based on your words, this probably isn't the site for you. You don't sound like much of a fan Let me inform you, in case you don't already know, I can have an opinion and still be a fan And based on the number of posts attributed to your profile, I think you should take a break from this site and maybe go get a life. I hope that with this post, we're both done with the personal attacks. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
elijahfan 25,377 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 She said in the Howard interview that the Guy who did that to her and also was working with her, talked to the media and said that they were dating.. and she was in shock because it was brand new information for her.. so the age difference, the fact that he was a producer, the fact that its reported that she dated Rob Fusari, all the signs are there... I truly believe it was him... plus she said that it happenned when she was 19, and thats when she met him. I know, the more I think about it, the more I'm convinced it's him.... Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
llbcherry 591 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Well this SUCKS. I'm sure the last thing she wanted was a sh*tstorm. I think it was RF but I don't think we should continue to speculate or say she did or didn't exaggerate or was not "raped" but "taken advantage of." Nobody knows. I don't know why we are (mostly) so comfortable discussing this. Clearly it had a terrible impact on her. Leave it be. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
NIKE 263 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 if it isn't Rob Fusari who could it be? I think it's Fusari but that is just what I got from the interview on Stern Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ethan 2,051 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Well this SUCKS. I'm sure the last thing she wanted was a sh*tstorm. I think it was RF but I don't think we should continue to speculate or say she did or didn't exaggerate or was not "raped" but "taken advantage of." Nobody knows. I don't know why we are (mostly) so comfortable discussing this. Clearly it had a terrible impact on her. Leave it be. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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