Sister 9,907 Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 This doesn't come as a surprise for me and I have hardly paid any attention to his music. The future's uncertain and the end is always near. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aguinaga09 1 Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 omg what?? I must listen to his album now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
uo111 5,201 Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 He is too old for this tbh. It's one thing to "fall" for straight guys when you are in high school. But this is too much. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
One Five Ten 70 Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 He is too old for this tbh. It's one thing to "fall" for straight guys when you are in high school. But this is too much. He's 21/22? That's not too old. Besides, I feel like he's probably been writing this album since he was in high school. I relate totally. I don't think we can help who we fall in love with - so all the people in here saying to not chase after straight men because of no interest must have just never had the experience. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoxo cupcakke 4,781 Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 He is too old for this tbh. It's one thing to "fall" for straight guys when you are in high school. But this is too much. What you said happened to me and I'm in high school. You know us youths so well. I need this album though. Hopefully, it brings me closure or opens up old wounds. :nooo: Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
PopBitch 1,218 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 It's universal, really. How many times has someone developed a strong friendship with someone or been around them in school, college, work, etc., fallen for them and had this hope it would turn into more only to be rejected or watch them go after someone else and realize they just don't look at you that way and never will. Gay, straight, bi, it's all relatable, the rejection of loving someone or pining for them and ultimately that horrible moment when you realize you're just in the dreaded friend zone. It's called unrequited love or lust. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carlitos 99 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 omg what?? I must listen to his album now This! :giveup: Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
retroglamx 5,087 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 To all those judging him for falling for a straight guy: You don't chose who you fall for. The end. And if you haven't been in that situation before then your opinion is irrelevant. Pink flamingos always fascinated me. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
uo111 5,201 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 He's 21/22? That's not too old. Besides, I feel like he's probably been writing this album since he was in high school. I relate totally. I don't think we can help who we fall in love with - so all the people in here saying to not chase after straight men because of no interest must have just never had the experience. It takes a relatively small amount of maturity to not fall in love with the wrong people. It takes a lot more maturity to stop being in love with the wrong people. But writing an album to a straight boy at the age of 22 is awkward. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrawberryBlond 13,313 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 He's 21/22? That's not too old. Besides, I feel like he's probably been writing this album since he was in high school. He confirmed that he wrote it after an experience he had last year when he was 21. At 21, I feel people really should know better about how s-xual orientation works and not bother chasing after people who will never be interested in them. The gay dating options nowadays mean there's no need to broach the difficult subject of finding out if your crush is gay too because you seek out gays in particular depending on what option you choose. At 21, he was old enough to go to gay bars and join gay dating sites, so what was he doing pursuing a straight man? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
cometoogg 0 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 what album the one where he's sitting? or there's a new one omg To all those judging him for falling for a straight guy: You don't chose who you fall for. The end. And if you haven't been in that situation before then your opinion is irrelevant. this, you just can't help it, and idk gays irl and sometimes you think they can be closeted, open to everything, etc everyone just chill Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Redstreak 6,651 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 I don't like being called sad and pathetic for having feelings for a straight guy. I'm not actively chasing him, I know I can't have him and that nothing will ever be there, but when you have feelings for someone, especially a friend, it gets complicated and they don't just go away at the snap of a finger. I didn't choose to like him Take a moment to think of just flexibility, love, and trust~ Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
retroglamx 5,087 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 what album the one where he's sitting? or there's a new one omg this, you just can't help it, and idk gays irl and sometimes you think they can be closeted, open to everything, etc everyone just chill Thank you. I don't like being called sad and pathetic for having feelings for a straight guy. I'm not actively chasing him, I know I can't have him and that nothing will ever be there, but when you have feelings for someone, especially a friend, it gets complicated and they don't just go away at the snap of a finger. I didn't choose to like him This so much!!!!! Pink flamingos always fascinated me. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanceInTheFlames 154 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 He confirmed that he wrote it after an experience he had last year when he was 21. At 21, I feel people really should know better about how s-xual orientation works and not bother chasing after people who will never be interested in them. The gay dating options nowadays mean there's no need to broach the difficult subject of finding out if your crush is gay too because you seek out gays in particular depending on what option you choose. At 21, he was old enough to go to gay bars and join gay dating sites, so what was he doing pursuing a straight man? Well according to another article he thinks dating sites are ruining dating/romance. Awkward now considering this new piece of information. Responding to other posts, people are certainly not dumb or pathetic for falling for friends of conflicting s-xualities however the fact that he said "unrequited love is just as painful, just as powerful, as what we call 'normal' love," is disconcerting to me. Putting unrequited love on some sort of pedestal is not good or healthy. We've all wanted someone we couldn't have, and I don't think we should glorify it by saying it's on the same level as "normal love". Just my two cents. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
TimisaMonster 31,073 Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 I had no idea Sam Smith was gay....explains a lot now....he looks like Boy George tbqh Stream my new single, 💜"Heartbeat"💜, on Spotify! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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