A year and a half after her divorce from Ethan Slater set off a media firestorm, Lilly Jay, a clinical psychologist specializing in perinatal mental health and child development penned a personal essay detailing how the unwanted attention has affected her personal life and career. In The Cut essay, she wrote about Slater's relationship with his Wicked costar Ariana Grande (though she doesn't mention the pop star by name) after their split and the difficulties she faced as a result and  shared ho