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Gaga is one of the only pop singers i know who is candid and charismatic on stage. Almost everyone else sounds scripted and unnatural talking to the audience. This really feels like a intimate convo. 

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SharkmanthaC

I love this so much.

Me (before watching): Who is this Owen everyone keeps talking about?

Me (while watching): Omg, that Owen! I love that she remembers him. :heart:

Did Owen go on stage again or just backstage? I wonder if Gaga helped his family bring him there.

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5 minutes ago, SamanthaC said:

I love this so much.

Me (before watching): Who is this Owen everyone keeps talking about?

Me (while watching): Omg, that Owen! I love that she remembers him. :heart:

Did Owen go on stage again or just backstage? I wonder if Gaga helped his family bring him there.

  I haven't seen any pictures footage of him onstage from that show, so I think he probably just met her backstage. If you haven't watched her talk about him in Sunday's J&P, however, you should – it's right before she sings "Don't Let Me Be Misunderstood" (video embedded in the OP's post). Among other things, she mentions how moved she is that his family brought her a gift to help her deal with her chronic pain in spite of all they have on their plate with Owen.

 

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7 minutes ago, Franch Toast said:

  I haven't seen any pictures footage of him onstage from that show, so I think he probably just met her backstage. If you haven't watched her talk about him in Sunday's J&P, however, you should – it's right before she sings "Don't Let Me Be Misunderstood" (video embedded in the OP's post). Among other things, she mentions how moved she is that his family brought her a gift to help her deal with her chronic pain in spite of all they have on their plate with Owen.

 

I watched it! So sweet.  I love the video from JWT of them together.

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Wow this melt my heart so much... first of all, she's an incredible human being, so honest, down to earth, so real that i can almost feel her emotions. She's the queen of music.. she might miss people, but after over a decade, she became not just the queen of music, let's face it, there's no one like her in this industry  but she is also the queen of  a lot people's heart.. I love you Gaga. Your Little Monsters will always be here for you. Wish you all the best. :kara::kiss:

Thanks for sharing this :bradley:

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gagzus

As an empath I’ve always sensed loneliness and regret and sadness in her over the last few years. But it makes me happy to know her friends, some fans and kids like Owen ease her pain.

i wish I could meet her just to apologise to her on behalf of men who’ve made her life sh*t over the last 12 or so years and tell her she’s not alone and she’s making a new generation of better kids who will follow her legacy as an artist or as a human being in general.

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cant even i just can't GIF by Redneck Island

@MonsterMom is the REAL fan in the house but I've had a tremendous amount of respect for Gaga, primarily because her message of inclusivity has encouraged unity across the spectrum of humanity and SHE has singlehandedly inspired so many to buck the system and simply be who they are in light of what others may think.  All of this has come at a cost of not being able to enjoy life like so many of us do.

You can tell that where she's oft so full of life, maybe her greatest qualities are that at her core she's a kind, gentle soul and the fact that she's opened up to her fanbase about her struggles is too much for this old heart to handle.  She's lonely and as strange as it sounds, my heart hurts to know that SHE is hurting.  How can someone with so much love to give seemingly struggle to find it herself?  Where I'm sad because she's sad, her vulnerability in being willing to  open up about her pain makes me love her more.

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You know, I often wonder why she doesn't just go out incognito more often? For all her talk about how she misses people and normal conversations, it doesn't seem like she tries very hard to just go out looking like Stefani. I bet she could get away with not being recognized if she dressed low key and went back to her natural haircolor (with a lowkey wig), didn't always have the same friends with her, and asked her bodyguard to keep some distance (or hire a different one for these outings). So many people said, of A Star is Born, "I didn't even realize that was Lady Gaga." Once she takes off the attention grabbing clothes, platform shoes, makeup, giant sunglasses, etc., she just looks like a typical woman. I think last time she went out like that was during the fires in Malibu where she went to the shelter to deliver pizzas. And she was able to talk to people and not be mobbed. 

So, I have to believe for all this talk about loneliness, if she REALLY meant it, she would make more of an effort to not draw so much attention to herself everywhere she goes. However, it seems like that is exactly what she keeps doing. It's like she wants the attention. Look at last night. She is in Vegas, where there are a TON of bars and casinos she could slip into incognito and sit down and play blackjack with a bunch of people who would likely not even know who she was. But instead, she goes all out Gaga, even posting a joke about how she is blatantly advertising her identity with her jewelry. 

So, which is it? Is she tired of being unable to go out with it being "natural" or does she love the spotlight all the time? How much of what she says onstage is earnest and how much is just for dramatic effect? It's hard to tell.

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13 minutes ago, NT78 said:

You know, I often wonder why she doesn't just go out incognito more often? For all her talk about how she misses people and normal conversations, it doesn't seem like she tries very hard to just go out looking like Stefani. I bet she could get away with not being recognized if she dressed low key and went back to her natural haircolor (with a lowkey wig), didn't always have the same friends with her, and asked her bodyguard to keep some distance (or hire a different one for these outings). So many people said, of A Star is Born, "I didn't even realize that was Lady Gaga." Once she takes off the attention grabbing clothes, platform shoes, makeup, giant sunglasses, etc., she just looks like a typical woman. I think last time she went out like that was during the fires in Malibu where she went to the shelter to deliver pizzas. And she was able to talk to people and not be mobbed. 

So, I have to believe for all this talk about loneliness, if she REALLY meant it, she would make more of an effort to not draw so much attention to herself everywhere she goes. However, it seems like that is exactly what she keeps doing. It's like she wants the attention. Look at last night. She is in Vegas, where there are a TON of bars and casinos she could slip into incognito and sit down and play poker with a bunch of people who would likely not even know who she was. But instead, she goes all out Gaga, even posting a joke about how she is blatantly advertising her identity with her jewelry. 

So, which is it? Is she tired of being unable to go out with it being "natural" or does she love the spotlight all the time? How much of what she says onstage is earnest and how much is just for dramatic effect? It's hard to tell.

Last time she went out "incognito" was this summer in NY i think. I read it in her first interview about Haus Labs, I can’t remember the name of the source. 
What she’s talking about is that ... of course she could put a wig on and wear usual clothes etc, but she would like to be able to be herself AND to talk to random people. She’d like to go out as she is- without wig, with her favorite clothes. And also I think this feeling "Oh everyone is recognizing me, everyone is watching" is following her even if she goes out incognito... This anxiety never leaves her and that’s what she meant :heart:

I hope you understand what I wanted to say :heart:

𝐼 𝒹𝑜𝓃'𝓉 𝓌𝒶𝓃𝓃𝒶 𝒷𝑒 𝒶𝓁𝑜𝓃𝑒 𝒻𝑜𝓇𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓇, 𝒷𝓊𝓉 𝐼 𝒸𝒶𝓃 𝒷𝑒 𝓉𝑜𝓃𝒾𝑔𝒽𝓉
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1 hour ago, NT78 said:

You know, I often wonder why she doesn't just go out incognito more often? For all her talk about how she misses people and normal conversations, it doesn't seem like she tries very hard to just go out looking like Stefani. I bet she could get away with not being recognized if she dressed low key and went back to her natural haircolor (with a lowkey wig), didn't always have the same friends with her, and asked her bodyguard to keep some distance (or hire a different one for these outings). So many people said, of A Star is Born, "I didn't even realize that was Lady Gaga." Once she takes off the attention grabbing clothes, platform shoes, makeup, giant sunglasses, etc., she just looks like a typical woman. I think last time she went out like that was during the fires in Malibu where she went to the shelter to deliver pizzas. And she was able to talk to people and not be mobbed. 

So, I have to believe for all this talk about loneliness, if she REALLY meant it, she would make more of an effort to not draw so much attention to herself everywhere she goes. However, it seems like that is exactly what she keeps doing. It's like she wants the attention. Look at last night. She is in Vegas, where there are a TON of bars and casinos she could slip into incognito and sit down and play blackjack with a bunch of people who would likely not even know who she was. But instead, she goes all out Gaga, even posting a joke about how she is blatantly advertising her identity with her jewelry. 

So, which is it? Is she tired of being unable to go out with it being "natural" or does she love the spotlight all the time? How much of what she says onstage is earnest and how much is just for dramatic effect? It's hard to tell.

She does go out incognito. She gave an interview while she was in NYC this summer and said that evening she was planning on putting on a brown wig and going through her old hangouts in the Lower East side. 

But that isn't a cure for loneliness. It would be even more miserable to miss normal interactions and the only way to experience them is to hide behind a mask. What good does that do? She can't go out as Lady Gaga or Stefani and be treated normally by normal people because she isn't normal. She's Lady ****ing Gaga. She's an icon. She would never know if people were legitimately interested in her or wanted to use and take advantage of her. I'm sure the same for a lot of famous people too. Nothing like publicizing your relationship with her for attention. 

Her mom talks about how she always felt outside of her peers because she is so unique. Now she's outside of everyone except for a very small percentage of people who are as well established as she is and she has said before she doesn't like a lot of the people in Hollywood or the music industry because they are fake. 

She wants a fun normal existence while being an artist and you can't have both and be as hugely successful as she is. I can't imagine having to deal with wanting something most people never value while having more than most people ever will. 

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1 hour ago, NT78 said:

So, I have to believe for all this talk about loneliness, if she REALLY meant it, she would make more of an effort to not draw so much attention to herself everywhere she goes. However, it seems like that is exactly what she keeps doing. It's like she wants the attention. Look at last night. She is in Vegas, where there are a TON of bars and casinos she could slip into incognito and sit down and play blackjack with a bunch of people who would likely not even know who she was. But instead, she goes all out Gaga, even posting a joke about how she is blatantly advertising her identity with her jewelry. 

This outing was not just fun, but she did a little promotion about life in Vegas.

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2 hours ago, ydnmnme said:

She’d like to go out as she is- without wig, with her favorite clothes. And also I think this feeling "Oh everyone is recognizing me, everyone is watching" is following her even if she goes out incognito... This anxiety never leaves her and that’s what she meant :heart:

On a side note it is very interesting to me that she almost never papped on a classical way. She recognized and "papped" by randoms or fans always. Her bodyguard and manager seems very good in this field.

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On 10/22/2019 at 4:11 PM, Renie said:

I think the person yells “how about me” 

But that’s honestly so sad! I can’t imagine how lonely she feels! It’s hard not being able to make real connections with people because most are just there becuase she’s Lady Gaga. :toofunny: I’d love to sit and drink and talk about life with her! Nothing would make me happier. If she plopped down next to me at a bar I’d quickly cover my lady Gaga shirt and pretend I don’t know who she is and have a real conversation with her!:heart:

This x100. She wouldn’t have to be famous for me to strike up a conversation or be friends with her.  I can honestly say her humor and beautiful personality are more intriguing to me than her music.  Not saying that I don’t love and appreciate her musical talents but its only part of the picture. 

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