Morphine Prince 95,947 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 One of the things that opened his eyes were people who have come out as genderqueer/non-binary, those who don’t identify with being male or female. When he first saw the term, he thought, “F***, that is me.” He continued, “I’ve always had a bit of a war between my body and mind about [how I identify], because I do think like a woman sometimes in my head. I’ve sometimes sat down and questioned: Do I want a sex change? It’s something I still think about. Like: Do I want to? But I don’t think it is.” So how does he identify? “I’m not male or female. I float somewhere in between,” he says. Having a feminine body has played into his struggle with body image. “I had breasts when I was 11 years old,” he said. “I have a very feminine body. When I move, when I have sex with men — it’s very feminine. I’m feminine in many many ways. I’ve always resented that. I’ve almost been like: No, that’s not manly. You gotta work out. You gotta lose weight. Because that’s what men do.” He recalled sending photos of actor Tom Hardy to his trainer only to come to realize, “I will never look like that because there’s a bit of a woman in me that won’ t allow that. I put on weight in places that women put on weight.” This realization has been life-changing. “That’s me looking at myself and saying, ‘F***. Maybe I’m not a man, maybe I’m not a woman, maybe I’m just me. And maybe that’s OK.'” Source: https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/sam-smith-considers-sex-change-theres-bit-woman-173652790.html Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LateToCult 36,019 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Girl I thought that said Sam Smith had some type of sex assault charges brought up against him. I was shook. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracious Gaga 17,163 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 1 minute ago, LateToCult said: Girl I thought that said Sam Smith had some type of sex assault charges brought up against him. I was shook. Same edit: but also could you imagine- Samantha Smith ♥ Kindness Police. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brolysskins 4,166 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Some of y'all are about to get mad at me but it must be said. Sure sis Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
highlikegaga 7,842 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 first gay man to change his sex Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 4 minutes ago, Morphine Prince said: I do think like a woman sometimes in my head. What does that mean Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FATCAT 55,611 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Therapy is a healing experience he needs in his life. If he really does need/want a sex change I'm sure a specialist can help him figure things out. Purr more, hiss less. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
FfFfFfFF 54,014 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 If he had done it this site would not have one of its most famous lines. Crazy isn't it. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kimmo 76,236 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Congrats I guess 🍾 Hottie Detector Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Antichrist 9,815 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 being feminine doesn't mean you're a woman Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish 6,086 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 having a different body than what we are bombarded with as men doesn't mean you have a woman's body. That is social construct at play here. We just need to work on diversity of bodies. However, I feel like there is more to his case. Anyway it is a very serious question, and I completely sympathize with his situation and thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chickens in Malibu 7,873 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 15 minutes ago, LateToCult said: Girl I thought that said Sam Smith had some type of sex assault charges brought up against him. I was shook. He's a bottom though Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fish 6,086 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Also, it is possible to identify as a male, having a more feminine side, including more" feminine" body features, and not feeling like you have to identify as gender-queer / non-binary either. Those labels make me yawn. They are more about the message you want to send to the outside world, a social statement, rather than a abstract and real identity marker. My 2 cents. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
LibraOctober98 3,456 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Good for them I guess Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
baptism 2,670 Posted March 15, 2019 Share Posted March 15, 2019 Him putting on weight in some spots and not others doesn't make him a woman it makes him a loser of the genetic lottery. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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